What can a man do to become a supreeme lover?

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call me a typical paranoid male but I have this obesssion with wanting to the best that whoever I sleep with will ever have. I was once told that I should learn to use my tounge and fingers because the male organ cannot do very much except spurt. However, I've read a post of a woman complaining a guy was too small. Although I'm not pee wee, I do realise that size counts and I have a fear that whoever I sleep with will one day find someone bigger and possibly better. I'm wondering if the ladies out there could tell us how we can make organ size irelevant to our abilities?