Faithfulness

United States
October 19, 2006 12:19pm CST
Are a womans looks what should really matter in a realationship? Is that all that keeps a man faithful?
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7 responses
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
5 Jan 07
Thats a good one. I think that is partly true about keeping faithful. Unfortantly yes alot of men are just into good looks and nothing else. And it usually doesnt work out. But there some good ones left out there.
• United States
7 Jan 07
Thank you for your response.
@happygal68 (3275)
• United States
8 Dec 06
The looks should never come into play, if you really love someone you look to the inside for their beauty and love. It does seem that there are some men that actually marry the woman just because she is a beauty, but there are a lot more out there that don't base it solely upon the looks of a woman. As to the man being faithful, I feel it is up to him to keep himself faithful. HE is the one that makes the CHOICE to be with his wife or to be with other women. Most men say after they have cheated that if the wife had done this or that more then he wouldn't have cheated. That's BS, he should have talked to his wife about it first before going off with someone else. I do believe that communication between the wife and husband does help the man remain faithful. As long as you can talk about the problems, they will not go and seek answers from someone else.
• United States
10 Dec 06
I couldnt have said it better myself.
@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Well, some men only want the woman to be his trophy. But most men want someone he can depend on. Someone who will try to understand him even when he isn't clear. True love isnt based on looks.
• United States
27 Oct 06
Thats how I feel it should be but it seems most men are so concerned with the womans looks.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
23 Nov 06
Looks are not very important. I have seen husbands of very beautiful women having extramarital affairs. I feel it is the understanding and caring of a woman that keeps a man faithful.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I don't think so...Most men aren't that shallow
• United States
13 Nov 06
I have met some pretty shallow men in my time. I feel like my ex was like that. Whenever I lost weight that was when he seems interested again.
@alihas (37)
• United States
28 Dec 06
Looks shouldnt be what matters the most but it does seem to be. I know alot of guys arent faithful if the woman gains weight. Imagine what it would be like if women started doing this to men.
@lechy02 (120)
• United States
23 Nov 06
It shouldnt matter but unfortunately thats the way it usually is. A man seems to stray when their woman gains weight. We dont leave them if their bodies arent perfect.