would you rather be the evil heartbreaker or the broken hearted?

Comparing these two kinds, many people would prefer to be a heartbreaker instead of a broken bearted because it's much easier to get over the feeling. I'm quite in favor of the choice. But on the second thought, being a broken hearted has on the other hand given you a stronger mixed feeling of love which will probably last forever in your life time. You will forever feel the pain, but at the same time, remember the love you used to own. Many people would forget about the feeling of love when they are getting older though if he's never experienced being broken hearted.

I have been into the same situation already, both as the evil heart breaker and as the broken hearted. Based on experience, neither of the two is easy to deal with. As the heart breaker, I could not manage every time I feel that conscience is talking to me for doing it so. I agree that when you are the one who breaks other's heart, you are not the one who's totally in deep pain. But I tell you, once you realize that you're regretting for choosing the wrong decision, it would most likely make you so down and depress as well, especially if you could think of and say , "wish I have not done this!' or "if only I could turn back time!".... Being the one who was broken hearted, it's not easy as well because from my experience, it took me about 2 years to move on from a failed relationship. And once your heart is broken, sometimes, the way you deal with other people and your relationship with them as well will be affected. Some principles in your life would suddenly change...Like in my case, I became a non-believer of love during the times when I have not yet moved on. :)

I would rather be the evil heartbreaker..no pain that way, escept the guilt of hurting someone =) I think I would rather deal with that rather than be hurt by someone I really cared about =)