Breast Implants

i personally dont agree with breas implants, i think we should accept what God has given to us, plus breas implant make risk, please think carefully before you make a decision, you are also already 49, i think no need to have breas implant, plus your husband dont complain about that,:) think about the positive and negative, what is more? positive or negative, if you have a breas implant, then what? will it make changes in your life??

Well I say if you want them - then go for it! It is your body, and your choice, and if you can afford it, and they will make you feel beter about yourself, then feel free:-)) My friend had it done a few years ago - and I have to say they look great. She is very petite, and before the surgery, she was extremely flat chested, and felt self conscious in a lot of clothes. Now she can wear different styles, and the clothes "hang" better. She does certainly get a lot of male attention, but that isn't the reason she had it done either - she has been with the same man for years now, and has no intention of finding a new one!! It was about self-esteem for her, and looking the best that she could. I personally have the opposite problem to you - have spent a lifetime wondering why men always talk to my chest and not my face (LOL!),so, if anything, I would have mine decreased.............but I think that kind of thing is purely a personal choice, and as long as you choose a reputable Surgeon/Clinic, these days there is no problem. Good Luck!

Go for it if it will bring you satifaction. Enhoy every moment of your life.

Well, you seem to have a valid reason for wanting it. But if I was in your situation I wouldn't do it as long as my husband is happy with my body. It's just too risky.

It is still very risky. They can leak. Even movie stars who can afford the best doctors, are having problems with them. They still are not safe. I am not sure how much they cost, but I don't think it is worth it because of the health risks. No, I would not consider having one. There are alternatives like wearing a wonderbra which makes you look bigger and shaply. http://www.wonderbrausa.com/

well hon I'm on the other side of the size scale and if i could afford to have a reduction done I would do it in a split second.I would feel so much better about myself. My clothes I feel would suit me better I would feel more attractive and self confident. So I can understand perfectly how you feel and if it's something you want and can afford and your health would be safe I would say go for it hon. How you feel about yourself is up to you ..Your body is your decision hugz Cheryl

Totally would consider it....and have, Not to be bigger though, I am not upset with my size (be it small) My reason for wanting implants is to fill the deflation 5 kids gave me. I would not want to be any bigger than I was prior to pregnancy (34B/C).

For myself, it is a no no. I think the surgery is risky, and it is very expensive. Also, they will sag a lot more, when you are older. As far making yourself feel better, that is your call honey. I am sure that you have a lot of wonderful things about yourself, that you could consentrate on more, then about what you don't have. But, do whatever you want, not what others say. As, we are not in your shoes, and really do not know what you feel inside. Good luck whatever you do sugar, and God bless you.

My mom is 55 and she also wants one. Her friend who is 48 just had one done and her attitude towards herself has changed alot. She is so much more confident and wishes that she had it done years ago... I have a few friends also thats had them done, some with great suceess and one that regrets going so big.. I am sure that if u decide to get one done you have though long and hard about it and u will not make them too big.. good luck!

I used to be against boob jobs, except reductions for health reasons. I couldn't think why women would want to go that far, especially if it was the influence of men. I realise now that I was being a hyprocrite, as I had a tummy tuck about 8 weeks ago. Although the problem with my stomach was partly due to an emergency cesear, it was for cosmetic reasons that I had it done. So if a boob job is going to make you feel better about your appearance, then do it. Nothing ridiculous I would suggest, or do you want to be the size of a football. Just something nice & average.

I'm all for it, I'm very short and I have small boobs. And If I ever had the money I would do it in a heart beat.:)

I would not consider it, but, then again - I do not know how I would feel if I were in your "shoes" having not had that particular dilema I can not really speak about it, I suppose. I have considered for health reasons, having a reduction done. But, wanted to wait until I am done having babies - for certain, as I would want to be able to provide my young with their natural food and with a reduction I am told this is no longer an option for mothers.

as far as i know this its risky though but if you want to do it desperately and have it done cautiously by some good doctor and most importantly refrain from things which can do infections like smoking and stuff..then its worth to go...

If you really think you need it, and you have more than enough money to undergo that operation, then maybe you should do so by all means. The risks are still there, although they say it is much lower, but aren't there always risks in anything? Anyway, I guess you should talk about this with your husband first, and hear what he has to say...