is having contact really important in every relationship..

i think for me such contact is the act of submission.. in a relationship this is important.

it is absolutely essential in any healthy adult relationship. take note i use the word "adult" people should be aware they can become dependant on it as easily as other addictions and their levels of need place unrealistic demand on their partners. good when its good, very good when its bad. kinda thing

It depends on what "contact" means to you. I was once in a relationship in which I only saw the guy on the weekends. At first that limited contact was fine because I couldn't fit him into my daily schedule but later on as my feelings for him grew I wanted to have more contact with him and spend more time just being with him. And the more time I spent with him my attraction for him grew and I wanted more of a physical connection with him. And that's when he needed less of a physical connection. Needless to say it didn't work out in the end because we both needed different things. I think you just need to discuss your needs and your partners needs to make sure you're on the same page.

sorry dont understoos u waht do u wanna know actually so canu tell me again what do u wanna know

I think the contact is very important in bonding each other.