Wedding Advice
By krsweetgirl
@krsweetgirl (97)
United States
April 10, 2007 12:55am CST
I am looking for some advice. My husband to be has been married two previous times. Our marraige will be his third but it is my first. We do have two children together.
He is leaving the type of wedding pretty much up to me. I want to have a actual ceremony with the dress and everything, but everytime I bring up the wedding he just tells me to do what I want.
That is nice and all but I dont really want to have to plan out a whole wedding by myself. I understand that he has been through this twice but I havent.
I dont know if I should go ahead and plan an actual ceremony or if I should just do a court house or something.
What do you all think. I need some advice on what I should do. Help Please!
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@mypeace (393)
• Nigeria
10 Apr 07
your husband has married twice, so dont be surprised with his actions, its natural. I commend him for even telling you to do and please yourself, knowing that as a first timer you will want to do all those fantasies in ur mind. my advice is that if he is supporting you financially, just plan the wedding as you wish, because you only have onces to do it in your life, am not praying for divorce for you. Let your friends help you out, so that you dont burn out, and start the preparation early enough, to reduce tension. Please urself, so that you wont be regreting it later, or be jealousing people who are doing it cuz you never did it, please urself girl, its ur day!!
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@krsweetgirl (97)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Thanks for the advice and the words of encouragement. I will be talking to my friends this next week to see what they are willing to help with.
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