having an affair.(men&women
By pinayyome
@pinayyome (44)
Japan
April 10, 2007 3:35am CST
Do you believe that they say its natural to a man to have an affair,natural to make love to another woman even if their married or not?what do you think and is it ok for you or not?for guy to you agree?
2 responses
@martinha (631)
• Portugal
10 Apr 07
No, I don't think it's natural.
If you marry someone you agree to respect that person. If you have an affair you are not respecting the person you married with. I don't see why people get married and then have affairs, you stay single and have your 'girlfriends', it's easier... and you don't spend lots of money.
Betraying someone it's not an option to me, I like to be honest with people and I wouldn't feel right cheating on someone... either being a girl or a guy.
@pinayyome (44)
• Japan
11 Apr 07
yeah your true,i really cant believe married man can do that.im little bit curious about some nationality like somewhere in africa,muslim can marry 2~5women?lucky me coz didnt born there.
@spiritwolf52 (2300)
•
10 Apr 07
If people feel the need to have affairs, they should never have gotten married. People need to take their marriage vows seriously. If one has an affair, then they really can't love their spouse. Marriage is built on love and trust. An affair kills that. How can you respect someone that has cheated on their spouse?
I would never, ever have an affair. I love my hubby far too much. I would never risk losing him.
@pinayyome (44)
• Japan
10 Apr 07
100%agree!but some men sez that having an affair is natural to them.its like they just want to taste other dishes.but as far as I know my hubby is ok...
