What will u do if someone don't send back the money he/she borrow from u
By jimhuo2008
@jimhuo2008 (572)
China
April 10, 2007 5:31am CST
hey guys I often met such situation. borrow some money to the so called friends and then they never return back my money.
Even several years later, when I asked them about the money they will say, oh I am so sorry I just bought something expensive and I don't have enough money to return. Actually I don't need that money but I will ask them to give them back. I don't want to be friend with someone who don't have the basic credit.
So maybe the only way to prevent such things is not to borrow your money to anyone??haha! Well I am just kidding at least I won't borrow money to people I don't trust again.
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5 responses
@neilf49 (809)
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10 Apr 07
I think a lot of friendships have been broken in the past due to the lending of money and it not being repaid. I personally would only lend money to people I know very well and know that they have the means to pay it back within a reasonable period. I would never ask a friend to lend me money even if I was absolutely desperate, although I do have a few friends who I know would lend it to me any time. Perhaps the only exception to this would be the occasion when I went out without my wallet, as I live quite a long way from where I normally go to for a drink one of my friends lent me the money I needed for the night. He was repaid the following day.
@natalie1981 (1995)
• Singapore
10 Apr 07
Oh yeah, I never lend money except if it's a REALLY trusted friend whom I don't mind giving the money to anyways and if that person makes a promissory note. Call it what you want but I'm really careful. I'm not rich and I need the money too and I don't want someone borrowing it and never repaying it back. That's why when a person I barely know borrows money from me I'll try to make up excuses not to.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
i don't let anyone borrow money from me that with high amount, so that we they will not able to gave it back, i will not hurt that much. Even if there were my friends.I simply lose trust to someone if they will not give back my money even in small amount. I think there were kind of irresponsible.
@tjaytiu09 (139)
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10 Apr 07
I experince that when I'm just a second year highschool! My trusted classmate burrows me a 100 pesos! and I let her burrow because i trusted her very much!And they are a well family so i think she will go back to me the money she burrowed! seven months pases! but she didn't pay me, i think that she will just pay me. But when the vacation came, and then she didn't pay me the money she burrowed! I didn't expect it! so i get hurt! but it's ok for me, I didn't became angry to her cause I know that the lord is the only one who will punish her in her sin to me! I now understand why she do it, cause she think that all the things she want will be given by a guy in an exchange of her attention to the guy! what I mean is she just play on it!
@meiyi_iceworld (112)
• Singapore
10 Apr 07
I will not do anything but for that particular person, they will have a black record in my database. I know what kind of person they are already and when the next time they ask me, i will reconsider lending the money to them. Sometimes, it also really depends on the person itself. If they want to return you, you don't need to ask they also will return you the money. If they don't intend to return you, no amount of asking will help.
