Is your relationship "solid"?

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@w1z111 (985)
United States
April 10, 2007 6:38am CST
Are there any simple tests to check to see if a relationship is "solid"?-Is a "SOLID" relationship 50/50 all the way? -Is a "SOLID" relationship "complete honesty", even if that means hurt feelings? -Is a "SOLID" relationship based on "live & let live", or "this is what I want from you", instead? -Is a "SOLID" relationship "mutually satisfying", or can it be "one-sided"?What do YOU think?
5 responses
pramodthakur
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
10 Apr 07
For solid relationship, there should be honesty, trasparency, respect to each others, love etc. One sided relation ends up early. Mutual understanding is must. Taking care of each others need makes the realtion profound. During hard time one must help in every possible way to other and vice versa. A single mistake can expoil the whole relation. So be careful to maintain it.
ethansmommy
@ethansmommy (279)
• United States
10 Apr 07
yes that is true and if one this goes wrong or they say one bad thing it messes it all up too
w1z111
@w1z111 (985)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Yea...I must agree. It's definitely a two-way, two-person, two-personality endeavor. Thanks for the post.
aliasad
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
10 Apr 07
I would like to add that relatioship is based upon the TRUST, the understanding and off course the respect for eachother. Sometimes we see that people just live a life just for a custom based upon some compromise. I don't think this way is altogether good. If we just compromise, life is spent but the relation would remain shakey, I guess so.
w1z111
@w1z111 (985)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Agreed. Solid relationships do require there be a strong TRUST level. That is paramount to maintaining strength and solidarity, I'd say. Thanks for the post.
ethansmommy
@ethansmommy (279)
• United States
10 Apr 07
No my life with the man I am with now is not good. Not solid at all not on tiny bet. He tells me to get the heck out but i worse words all the time. We break up every other day not good thin.
w1z111
@w1z111 (985)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Yowch! Sounds like you're in a tough place. Wishing you the best of luck and courage to get through...and you will! Thanks for the post.
julaqq
@julaqq (141)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
Our life is run with trials and tribulation and loving someone is no exception from being tested. Since the day our eyes opened to the real world, we are constantly beset by these trials and we are tested how strong we are in facing obstacles in life. As long as both of you are doing the right thing, your relationship will come strong through all the difficulty in life.
w1z111
@w1z111 (985)
• United States
10 Apr 07
You're right! Nothing can shake a truly "solid" relationship, because many of those are built from lessons-learned and 'hard-knocks' experiences. Thanks for the post.
Gladys22
@Gladys22 (416)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
Solid If you truly love each other, have trust, patients, understanding, Honest ect. solid If you meant for him and if you both deserve each other. Solid if you realize your Fault then say sorry for it. Solid means Perfect but Perfect you can do that if We are Know and Grow from our mistakes but no one is Perfect. in my relationship in the beggining i would rete it For Solid but after a long time well it not growth means not Solid. hehehe but there's a lot of Problems came for us but we can make it through if we both love each other. acceptance and forgiveness are much better than to stay for someone not make you happy or he are there for you because he needs you.you needs you but he doesn't happy for you. it's not love. so you need to set him free. right?? it's not a perfect inperfect.