Date with married
@indian_delhi2007 (77)
India
3 responses
@lordelrond (35)
• United States
10 Apr 07
That's pretty low as a man to man thing I wouldn't want a man dating my wife and not knowing it. So I wouldn't do the same thing to another man. I don't know it just seems kinda low. At least wait for a divorce or something.
@cowgirl2701 (2079)
• United States
10 Apr 07
No I would never date a married person. How would you feel if you were married and found out your spouse was cheating on you? What if there are kids involved. How would you feel as a child if one of your parents was cheating on the other one. I believe in putting yourself in the shoes of the ones being cheating on. If you wouldn't like it done to you you shouldn't do it to some one else.
@nowment (1757)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Would depend on the situation, was he / she honest about the situation? Why are they looking to date outside of their marriage ? Are they honest with their partner about meeting other people?
Those are key questions that need to be answered before hand.
I in fact did date a married man, but that was because he lied about it, he told me he was divorced. Turns out he wasn't even separated, he was just being sneaky.
I stopped seeing him immediately as I am not into anyone who lies to me married or not, don't lie.
I also dated another married man whose wife lived in another country, they were not getting divorced for a few reasons, children, religion, etc, we became friends, and that was fine he was honest with me. I wasn't looking for anything more than what he was offering, and he accepted me for who I was. So it became a good friendship.