Annulment and Divorce: is it good or bad?

I haven't had any experience with annulment but I have seen my parents and hubby's parents go thru several divorces between them. I think both communication & compatibility were issues at times. I've been married for 23 years and have never considered either option for myself. We have a tendency of working out our problems by communicating and for us, it makes for a much more rewarding and symbiotic relationship. This isn't always easy for others to do so they take the easy way out. In some cases, the situations can be resolved in no other way, I'm sorry to say.

Yes, Marriage is sacred. That is exactly the reason why a couple has to be matured enough and ready to face life together before binding themselves by marriage. But these days things don't happen that way anymore. Sometimes people just get married, and realize later on that they shouldn't have gotten married at all. When couples begin to have children, the responsibilities that come within the bounds of marriage increase a whole lot. If the husband and wife are not in harmony with each other, or love is lost, the children are very very much affected by the situation, and tend to grow in an unhealthy atmosphere. It would be better for the couple to part ways and still be able to raise their children with the healthy atmosphere of friendship and communication with each other for the sake of the children, rather than staying together in constant conflict and disagreement, and allowing them to see and feel hatred in the family. I strongly believe that whatever the children experience in their family life now will have an effect in their future lives when they begin to have their own families.

I'm sure,more or less,every one has stressed over this question:Can men and women just be friends?Well,the question is complicated. Surveysshow that many romantic relationships start off as friendships. But this may be because one person is attracted to other and chooses a let's-be-mates rather than a direct approach. A poll by women's website handbag.com found overwhelming support for idea of men and women being platonic friends.but nearly half the women said some male friends were ex-lovers and one third of women secretly lusted after their male friends but didn't act on it. men are also likely to be attracted to their women friends - a survey by MarketTiers of 1,000 people in the united states found that one third of men fancy one close female friend.