Payton and Brooke:choose: man you love?or friendship?
By Sexylicious
@Sexylicious (304)
Philippines
April 10, 2007 1:04pm CST
The story of this famous TV show is very realistic, it can happen in our usual day to day lives. It has once happened to me and thank God i settled it out right.
Best friends, definition? said that " Girlfriend I will never ever leave you" were bestfriends forever.
Boyfriend, definition? the one who will be there for you in the midst of all challenges that may happen in a usual life.
Think about it, who usually talks to your boyfriend when your temper is up and will be there to help you two shape up again? isn't it that it's the bestfriends thigy? How about a girl fight? who usually settle this out? isn't it the boyfriends?Simple roles that they usually do in our lives. But this simple role should not be treated SIMPLE, a lot of attention is required for if you became unmindful of simple things, it may cause the destruction of big things that you have never imagine it would become.
2 responses
@padmeamidala (4)
• United States
29 Apr 07
*sighs* yes it happens everyday, but most people get over it and get to be friends again. This whole triangle was fine in the beginning. But it's played out and I think it needs to stop.
This happened to me in the past. I did EVENTUALLY forgive the person. But nothings as simple as they try to make things out to be. I'm not quite sure what angle their going for.lol
@misskatex (25)
• United States
29 Apr 07
I think the same thing. The same thing happened to me as well and after some time, I forgave them and things went on. I do believe it's possible for these types of things to happen and the people to go back being friends .. I'm sure they'll have a trust to build back up but this storyline is lasting WAYY to long.
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@Sexylicious (304)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
Sometimes, i thinks its really hard coping up with this kind of situation, because theres a mixture of anger and love. Very confusing
@vwlssknght (653)
• United States
10 Apr 07
Well, saying that you "will never ever leave" someone is exhibiting doubt, not only in yourself, but in your relationship. That should be something felt but not expressed. Saying it too much makes it lose all its meaning.
