wet nurses

@mememama (3076)
United States
April 10, 2007 6:53pm CST
Would you ever be a wet nurse for a friend or family member? How about for older people who cannot take other forms of nutrition? If you have no clue what I'm talking about, here's a tidbit, thank you wikipedia lol. I think I'd be willing to nurse a baby if the mother couldn't, but not if she was simply unwilling to nurse. I'd also have to take into account if I was nursing my own child at the time, I'd have to prioritize him/her first, maybe pump for the other child. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wet_nurse A wet nurse is a woman who breast feeds a baby that is not her own. A wet nurse may be employed if the birth mother of a baby is unable to breast-feed her infant for reasons such as: drug use (prescription or illegal) illness death insufficient production of breast milk. unwillingness Wet nurses have also been required following multiple births where the mother feels incapable of adequately nursing all of the children herself, though the breast would respond to demand, increasing in yields and volume to meet the need over a period of weeks. Some wet nurses are also trained to serve as a midwife during childbirth. Historical use The practice of using wet nurses is ancient and found in many cultures. In Prophet Mohammed's history in late 6th century, it was reported that Mohammed took breast milk from a wet nurse named Halima Sadia. It was a tradition in Arabia in that time to give babies to the wet nurses. Wet nursing was reported in France by Louis XIV in early 17th century. In the past, members of higher classes would have their children wet-nursed. This is an outgrowth of an old tradition—noblewomen would not breast-feed, and could become pregnant again sooner, to ensure an heir, if they were not nursing their infants. Wet nursing has sometimes been used with old or sick people who have trouble taking other nutrition. John Jacob Astor and John D. Rockefeller reportedly hired wet nurses for their own use in their old age. In the novel The Grapes of Wrath, one character wet nurses another. Wet nurses were common for children of all social ranks in the southern U. S. during the 19th and early 20th centuries. H.L. Hunt, the famous Texas oil man,nursed his mother until he was seven years old (1896). Hunt was something of a prodigy and his mother rewarded him by allowing him to continue nursing at her breast long past the customary weaning age. He finally stopped this practice when his father found him suckling his mother while she was standing in their kitchen kneading dough. As an adult, H.L. Hunt wrote about this without embarrassment in a book he authored. Source: Texas Rich,The Hunt Dynasty by Harry Hurt III (W.W. Norton & Co., New York, 1981) pp 26-27. Current use Through the recent widespread availability of infant formula, wet nurses are not as necessary in developed nations and, therefore, are not common there. The use of a wet nurse is still a common practice in many developing countries.
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• United States
11 Apr 07
I knew exactly what you were talking about. Back in my grandmother's day, wet nurses were quite popular. Often times a mother's milk would dry up and their family doctor would suggest that they seek a wet nurse to provide milk for their baby. My grandmother was wet nurse to a couple of babies in her day. I had plenty of milk when I nursed my children. But never provided milk for anyone else, nor was I ever asked to. In this day and age I guess that the doctors are too quick to put the baby on formula.
@my2luvs (158)
• United States
11 Apr 07
I did bf both my kdis and I thought about this once. I think I could do it if there was a need. Say there was some horrific accident and the baby was hungry and there was no formula for the baby. Any situation similar to that . I dont think I could do it just to do it.
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
15 Apr 07
I'm sure that I could and would without hesitation. The other mother would of course have to be comfortable with it, but if she were it wouldn't make me uncomfortable at all.