the who loves you or the one you love

Philippines
April 10, 2007 8:53pm CST
If you were put in spot where you have to choose between the one who loves you and the you love one, which one would you choose? I'd abstain! I know, I know. A very cowardly choice.
6 responses
loveapple
@loveapple (17)
• China
11 Apr 07
If I want get married ,I would chose the one who love me.He can look after me and forgive me on many things.The important is I think he will give me happiness.
p0wcheee
@p0wcheee (97)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Thanks for your post! Yes, I suppose that this choice would be the easy way out. And you can learn to love him in time. But what if he wasn't able to give you happiness, what will you do?
loveapple
@loveapple (17)
• China
13 Apr 07
If he can't give me happiness,I'm very sad.I'll leave him,I also don't know what to do,only leave him!
SilPhil
@SilPhil (267)
• Australia
11 Apr 07
Why can't they be the same person? Why can't the person be the one you love, who also loves you in return? I couldn't be with someone who I didn't love completely, but I also couldn't be with someone who didn't feel the same way about me. No matter which way you go, someone is going to be missing out. So figure, its worth waiting for the person who meets both of those criteria!
p0wcheee
@p0wcheee (97)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
I totally agree with you. :) There really will be time that it would fit perfectly between you and that someone. :D Thanks for the post!
maucute
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
I would go for the one who loves me..:)I can learn to love a person especially if I know how sincere he is to me. The one who love me is willing to be with me, to love and understand me no matter what so it would be easier for me to adjust. Rather than go to the one I love but couldn't learn to love me, in the end I'm the one who might be suffering..
p0wcheee
@p0wcheee (97)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Thanks for commenting! :) I wish I was decisive about this as you. Isn't that hard? Learning to love someone. Like it doesn't really come to naturally. :-/ But what even if you tried, you really couldn't love the person?
marci3
@marci3 (245)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
I would choose the one I love because that's what unconditional love is--loving someone even if you receive nothing in return. Although he doesn't love me, I would make sure that I'll make him love me. I'm sure no one would resist if you shower him with affection and care.
p0wcheee
@p0wcheee (97)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Thanks for the post! :) I suppose a little hardwork could make it work. But what if you don't meet his expectations? You've given everything and yet for him... it is not enough? what will you do?
bunalice
@bunalice (315)
• China
11 Apr 07
If I was in the spot,I will not choose anynon.The one who I love does not love me,I will feel very sad,maybe sometimes I am very happy because I stay with him,but if I am clear,I think it's very holpless. If the one who I don't love loves me,I will feel very bored,maybe i think he is very disgusting. so i will choose no one!
p0wcheee
@p0wcheee (97)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Thanks for the reply! :) actually, you have a point there. Or maybe am biased becasue I'll choose no one too. Ahahaha. Both are just on the extremes! :)
sheenabhasin
@sheenabhasin (50)
• India
13 Apr 07
the 1 who loves me........ I wud b honoured 2 get an opportunity 2 get a partner who loves me unconditionally.......and his love will def make me luv him 2!! so.....