do you hate it when your bf thinks he can live your life for you

That's not healthy in a relationship. No one should tell you what to do because you are already an adult. But I think (I am sorry) that you are partly to blame for his actions. Stand up for yourself and make him see that he cannot control you.

Um, I sure do, Ethan's Momma. Slap th' punk. That's what you should do. Make him open his eyes to a strong woman.

I can say that if he is acting like this then he is jealous and possessive .... plus he has no respect for you. I would kick him out the door or anyone who acted like that .... nobody owns you but yourself and once a person starts to dictate what you can and cannot do, get rid of them because they can become dangerous. The other thing to ask yourself is, if he is acting like this, then what is he doing when he is on the internet. This sort of thing usually stems from a guilty conscience .... I worked that out after a while. I put up with this sort of crap from my ex-wife and it was only after we separated I found out she had been having affairs and chatting up blokes ont he internet. Guilty conscience made her tell me what I could do and then accuse me of things .... hell I was driving a truck for 18 hours a day and home the rest of the time. Kick him out now while you can still do it. There is someone better for you out there and they won't come along while you have this loser hanging around.

you should say no to him.we are all independant adult,why he tell you what to do or not.he can do what he likes,so can we.so if he continue this behavior once again,say"no" to him.he has not the right to restrict you.