Hard to Get
By laarni080
@laarni080 (127)
Philippines
April 11, 2007 1:24am CST
In courting im specifying this to guys out there, what do you do if the girl you are courting is a hard to get person? Where she is not easily to say yes, how do you handle this situation?
2 responses
@belli0n (20)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Personally, I like hard to get persons. It makes "getting them" so satisfying. Also, if I worked hard for someone, I'll treasure her more and try harder to please her. If I had someone who was just so easy to please and get, I'd probably get bored pretty quick.
@steelmoggy (410)
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11 Apr 07
When I was in the dating business, and I was wanting to go out with a girl, I'd ask her out twice. If she came back with excuses both times, then that would be it.
There were more fish in the sea and I can't be bothered with people who play games - 'playing hard to get' is, in my opinion, disrespectful. If you're not interested, say No. If you have a genuine reason why one date isn't possible, but you're interested, suggest an alternative.
Playing hard to get is just playing games.
Whilst I know some people like this sort of thing, I always regarded it as wasting everyone's time and causing discomfort for people.
So - I don't like it.
