Is the purity of your partner in his/her mind or body?

India
April 11, 2007 7:56am CST
I am from a country where physical purity is given utmost importance when chosing on a partner for marriage! Most of the time people fail to understand what their to be partners think.. People feel that if their partner is a Virgin, he/she is pure! Is this true or is the mind more important?
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chickangel
@chickangel (161)
• United States
11 Apr 07
I think the mind is more important. So what if they are not a vergin that doesn't meen they can't be faithful. Faithfulness is the important thing in any relationship. So I feel it to be more of a pure heart. Past is Past...if you judge some-one on there past you never know that poerson could have been the "the one". But if you think about it; to judge a person based on verginity you are punishing them for things they either regret already or for feeling love. Personally I lost my verginity at 16, I had kids been married and divorced, currently have a boyfriend for almost 2 years and a baby by him...I am faithful to him, my heart is only for him and my kids. So it is the mind and heart that is the most important.