I just wanted to apologize !!!
By weemam
@weemam (13372)
April 11, 2007 9:10am CST
I wanted to apologize to my very good friends , my new friends and my soon to be friends . Most of you know I have to drive my disabled son around also my hubby who has heart problems and I also look after my parents both still in their own home and who have Alzheimers , now I am not looking for pity ,far from it , I am just so happy that I can do this for them , the thing is , In the last few days there have been a few hic cups ( time consuming0 , and today a funeral of a good friend , I have been getting myself a bit upset because I love to leave you all a wee message when you respond to my discussions , I know some of you look and like to answer back but between all my running about and my arthritis in my legs ( sore sitting at the PC ), I just can't catch up , I don't want you all to think I am ignoring you ,I am still reading EVERY one and rating them all with a + as a thank you , So please bear with me , I will start afresh today , and thank you all again for being there for me , My Lot keeps me sane ( well as as sane as I can ever be lol ) and thank you in advance . xxxxxx
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43 responses
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Hi. I also like to give you a plus. Don't worry about being busy. I also have not written much lately. Maybe when I feel better I will write more. Our handicapped son and things around the house have kept me busy also. xxx blessngs Albert
@Connie1013 (1098)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Sweetie take some time off. I will miss you but you need to be healthy. I am sorry for the loss of your friend. You are truly a good spirit. There is never a need to apolagize to a friend if they are your friend. ;)
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
11 Apr 07
I thought the saying went you don't have to be mad to be here but if you are it helps LOL! Don't worry my friend we fully understand! You are a gem and having such a close knit family and being the mother hen your time is naturally taken up! Just as long as you are ok and I'm always thinking of you my friend, so here's a hug and you'll like me we worry too much and we tend to be too sensitive x
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@feralwoman (2199)
• Australia
11 Apr 07
Oh Weemam, you are such a nice person and no need to apologize. Sometimes life conspires against us and we have to deal with more important issues, and put the fun ones to the side for later. I know this has happened to me from time to time. Take care and don't stress lol.
@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
11 Apr 07
dont worry weemam, we understand you. you can only do 100 % dont forget that. come here when you feel for it and need a break from your real life. i think on you and i always wonder, from where you takde that much power to do all this caring and lovng to all of your family. i hope you get some of it back. here is a big hug for you
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
11 Apr 07
No need to apologize , sometimes there is so much to do here I dont even get time to look at my computer let alone come to mylot.Sorry about the loss of your friend .Just take care of your self hun and dont worry so much.
@sweetlady10 (3611)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Ohh weemam, no worry at all. After hearing your day to day life story I just want to say taht I am proud of you. You are such a couragious and graeat personality. It is really painful to fight everyday with the pain of your loved one. I am so glad that you are doing all this so perfectly.
DOn't worry about Mylot people, here people are so friendly and they totally understand.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Wee, it sounds like you have your handsful. You must worry more about yourself and less about us. We can take care of ourselves and will miss you but you sound like you are doing way too much.
Is there any way that you can get some help? We don't need to see you on the disabled list along with your family.
Please find time for yourself!!!
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@apakabar2007 (1693)
• Netherlands
11 Apr 07
My dear weemam, don't worry !!! Take all the time you need. Everybody has their own ups and downs. Your health and your families is number one priority, so it is understandable when you need a break especially all those loving things you need to do. If I could I'd give you a nobel price for your loving and caring deed.
So, weemam.....take all the time you need, go easy on yourself, and I'll be thinking of you in my pray....all the best to you and your families....
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Weemam,
If you never wrote another word I would still treasure the time we have spent together here on myLot and be thankful.
It has meant so much to have you as a friend.
You are a darling woman and Honey the family comes first and that's one of the things I love about you is your dedication to them.
Sweets you just take whatever time you need and I'll be right here when ya get back...
Just keep us updated so we won't worry what happened to ya and I'll be happy.
Love ya Hun
xoxo
@carolynpb (647)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Hey that's okay! I do not personally KNOW how in the world you are able to get on the computer at all!!! You have so so much on your shoulders that from now on when I start to complain I will think of you and be greatful!! Take care of yourself! My prayers are with you and your family!
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@ShadyGrove (996)
• United States
12 Apr 07
There is no reason to worry or fret - we know you are a busy lady and have quite a bit on your plate :o)
You are always so nice and thoughtful and I'm sure that if you have the time you'll jot a line - if not we'll miss you but know you have other things pulling you away and that you'll be back when you can. :o)
My condolences on the loss of your friend. Take care of yourself and everybody else who needs you too!
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Don't give any of that a second thought. I think we all have times when we just can't get around to doing our mylot stuff everyday. I know I've gone a few days without being able to get to it. It takes a while for people to catch up and that's no big deal.
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@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
For goodness sake you just take care of yourself and not to worry, we'll still be here for a day or two. LOL
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@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
11 Apr 07
oh! it's awesome ! I thought my problems to be the gravest among the lot ..soften up my friend.. the unseen force that brought you and me to this ethereal existence has its own ways.
