When your younger sister fall in love with your ex, how would you react?
By abednego7
@abednego7 (1060)
Philippines
April 11, 2007 11:44am CST
This is for women who broke up with their boyfriend and suddenly found out that their younger sister is fallen in love with him and her ex-boyfriend do the same.
Actually its my friend problem, she was the younger one and caught herself in the middle of that awkward situation. She texted me what she would do. I said there's nothing wrong with it since the guy and her sister is already separated, but still its not that good in other's eyes. Then she said she was the reason of that break up. Now I can't go further how to advice this girl.
Any other good suggestion from you folks?
5 responses
@uiwwitch (892)
• United States
11 Apr 07
oh! That's a hard situation to be caught in. Talk about awkward. Other than being awkward, I don't think there's a way to prevent or stop the relationship because in reality, there's nothing wrong with it. As you've said, the relationship was already over. Other people may react but they don't have a hold on your friend or her sister's life. It's hard not to be mindful of that but life goes on and soon it will become normal to everyone.
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@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Nice answer my friend, everything will be normal after all. Its their life and they control it by their way. Thanks for you comment and for dropping by.
@angel68 (138)
• United States
11 Apr 07
when i broke up with my first boyfriend years ago my sister later in life went on to marry him. they are very happy and they have 3 children together. i made the decision to break up with him so i do not and will not hold it against my sister being with him. its a little akward in the beginning but over time it was fine.
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@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
You really had a courage by doing that. Somehow the kindness will turn good things for you. Thanks for the response and for dropping by.
@preetshweety (1046)
• India
11 Apr 07
I think u should tell ur Sis why u break up. She should b guided well so that wat happenend wid u is not repeated in front of ur eyez. U should tell bout his attitude, behavior, nature, etc. so that she can realise the fact n break wid him.
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@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
She is my friend indeed. I already warned her about the possible consequences it may bring on and hopefully she will listen to me. Thanks for your comment by the way.
@roshnichaudhary (1160)
• United States
11 Apr 07
I agree with you. There is no problem in continuing for the younger sister. If the elder one is already separated then she shouldnot be worried. But she should talk to her sister once too at least inform her about this.
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@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
Thats creates another problem because she said to me that she can't barely open that topic to her older sister because she is afraid the her sister might get mad with her.
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
11 Apr 07
I think in this case you should let your sister make her own mistakes because you can tell her one thing but to experience it will provide her with the knowledge... ?? where is your exboyfriend and sisters morals... they are truly breaking the code, and If i were you... i wouldn't be ok with it...it would hurt me for a little bit... but I don't think i would contribute to their company any longer... thats a deep one
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@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
First she is just my friend. Probably like you said it cuts deeply in emotional connotation. Seems like betrayal but I can't judge them. Maybe they have their reasons although not enough to justify it.
