do you PAMPER YOUR LOVER? you spoil him/her?

i've hadnt have a partner for like ages ago , but given the chance , i would pamper him, cuddle, and be extra sweet and thoughful , but he has to be extremely loyal to me , and not let me catch him cheating or else....

yes i do pamper my hubby and have spoilt him a lot.. the advantage of this is firstly he pampers and spols me the same way and secondly he cant live a single day without me...:)

I 'do' pamper Bruce. The advantages of it are: He loves it. He would give me anything (all I have to do is ask), He now treats me like a queen. He appreciates it. The disadvanges are: What if he comes to expect it?

i really think i do. well, disadvantages would be sometimes i tend to think more about him than that of myself. the advantage would be, is that i know he likes it and it makes him happy.

yes i pamper my husband...i wait on him hand and foot...i get up first every morning to make his coffee,pack his lunch,and cook his breakfast...when he comes home in the evening i met him at the door with a hug and a kiss...his dinner is always ready for him...i wash his clothes,take his shoes off him,i am always avaiable to fulfill his every need or desire....in the 3 years we have been together i have never once told him no...

I do pamper my girlfriend alwasy but it have to depend on the situation. i think when i pamper her, this could make her feel my love. Girls have this kind of prefrence of being pamper by his boyfriend. But, if pamper her too much and over the limit, it can spoil her. it could make her feel that i don't have the gut. So sometimes, i need not to pamper her but depend on the situation and let her feel like being control abit. maintain a love relationship just like flying a kite up. Sometimes, we need to let go the string and let it fly but sometimes we neeed to pull the string back then the kite can fly higher.