Important in a Relationship

I think that physical attraction is one of the most important things when beginning a relationship with someone. I really look for someone that is funny and that can make me laugh, because when i am stressed out or having a bad day at work I want that person to help cheer me up and take my mind off of things. The most important thing to me is that I feel comfortable with the person and that I can truly open up and be myself and that requires trust and honesty. It has always been difficult for me to let down my guard and trust someone and there have been times when the trust between me and my boyfriends were broken. Trust is usually the hardest thing to repair because once it is broken it is very hard to get things back to where they have to be. I think unconditional love is important as well. If your gonna love me you have to love both the good and the bad. I think that in a relationship if you guys are comfortable with each other, attracted to each other, can talk to each other openly, and really trust each other there is a possibility for a long and successful relationship.

you're right. in a relationship is not only about love, but also understanding, appreciate, and care each other. Both of them have to accept their manners without complain. they have to support each other. and the most important in a relationship is we must have a lot of forgiveness.. ^-^

For me, being in a relationship means knowing your partner very well including his postive and negative aspects. I am in a two year relationship right now and i can say that we are still very happy. To have a sucessful relationship, communication is very important so that both of you can freely say anything you want including your thoughts and feelings without hesitations. There should also be respect, understanding and most importantly patience. thats why i believe that patience is really a virtue. We can never avoid to have arguments but if you are patient and understanding you can easily solve your problems. Its also important to know each others limitations in a relationship.