boy or girl???

It honestly doesn't matter to me. I am not going to become one of those parents to whom gender matters, even if I had a choice in the matter. It really shouldn't matter whether or not the child is a boy or a girl, just as long as the child is healthy, and the parents will take good care of the child.

I would like to have a child more than anything in the world. I would like to have a girl, because they look like so much fun to dress up in cute little ruffled dresses and tights and take to church. Boys are fun too, but it would be harder for me, I think. Boys are rough and tough and like to get dirty and I wouldn't want him getting hurt. I would probably send him out with elbow pads, knee pads, wrist guards and of course a helmet. Then his friends would call him a whimp. To be honest, either one would be fine right now. I am 37 years old and I have been wanting a child since I was fourteen years old. That is a very long time to want something. I am being patient, but time is of the essence.