For WOMEN.....About MEN...(A must read..)

Philippines
April 11, 2007 8:53pm CST
I received this e-mail several times, and that I always read it. Its interested and you could learn from it. Please read and tell what do you think afterwards. If man wants you, nothing could keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition or your spirit to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't be settle. If you feel like he is stringing, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who got bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differentlt? Always have your set of friends different from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change come from within. Dont ever make him feel he is more important than you are.... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-gold. He is a man. Nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with her. He will cheat on you too. A man will treat you the way you allow him to treat you. All men are not DOGS. You should not be the one doing all the ending... compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal in between relationship. There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with issues before pursuing a relationship. You should never look for a man to complete you.. a relationship is compose of two whole individuals.. look for someone complimentary. not supplementary. Dating is fun.. even if he doesn't turned out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't FULLY commit to a man who doesn't give you everything you need. Isn't this good to consider I hope I make another woman prepared. :)
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8 responses
• United States
12 Apr 07
Great topic. Lots of good advice. The one that sas never co-sign for a man I would just like to add never co sign for anyone not even your own children.
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Thank you for your response... :)
@katyzzz (2897)
• Australia
12 Apr 07
It is very sound advice, 90% of women need it, they are so silly.
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
You've got a point. :)
@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Yeah, where was this 7 years ago???? Or heck, even a couple months ago?? lol I think every woman should live by these rules, thanks so much for sharing!!!
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
You're welcome too. Thank you for your response. :)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Those are all very true but somtimes when you really want somone, its hard to not give in to some bending of the rules. But I think if you can follow at least like 90% of those, then that is a stong woman. Thanks for sharing those words of wisdom :)
@amjada (379)
14 Apr 07
Yes! you are right about this, that if man wants you, nothing could keep him away. Yes you right again, Compromise IS a two way street, Not one one way street. If you whant someones heart, you have to give someone a heart.
@jc_star10 (953)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 07
This is good for any woman out there that trying to understand a man. Sometimes a man is having a difficulty to understand woman, but it's also the other way around. Woman is having a difficulty to understand a man. I always said that woman thinks with their feeling, while man thinks with their logic. There is nothing cute about a doll, it's just a doll wraps in clothes. While woman, no matter what the doll made from, if it's cute then it's cute.
• India
12 Apr 07
This is very true. Only some minor changes need to be made to it. Firstly, its not only for women about men, but its for all human beings about their partners. So according, all the words where, "your man" has been used, it should be changed to "your partner". I can say it so confidently from my experience in the last 8 years. Girls are equally equipped to make men feel miserable and helpless for the love that they have to offer. So man should choose a girl wisely before falling for her. If she treats him like he isn't worth much, its time to put a price tag on himself.
@sallyxu126 (1184)
• China
12 Apr 07
this is good . But might hard. Anyway, we can read it as a good rule.