Time do really heals broken heart....

i agree with you. like what i told to my ex, when he said he missed the times when we are together. i said its already a part of the memories, i had already move on. he regret and try to get back on me but because of the pain and now the love has already gone. Those sweet memories are only part of the memory. I admit during the time i was struggling with the pain and somehow cope up. i still remember the happy moments that we were together but everytime i remember what he did. it really hurts but now it doesnt hurt anymore. It does mean i already forgive him but it took me a year to overcome it. Maybe we are not really meant for each other.

The first six months of the break up is the hardest thing to get through with, its agonizing and torturous way of leaving without your love, yet within this timeframes, it is where yourself is recovering from the wounds, and thus creates a more mature and stronger you. Its a phase of self realization ... after that, month by month, i focused my self to become much stronger, in a way i can live with my self alone... and until one day some one so special will come in your way.. and into yourself you'll realize that it is the main reason why your past relationship should be broken... cuz a much better person has been prepared for you by God... :-)

yeah exactly, you can really relate pal.

you will my friend and that is up to you. help yourself. I've been through that believe me. its very difficult but in time you will overcome it. if you dont help yourself it will be forever im sure but of course you dont want to be stuck there forever, right? Meet new friends, dont set and broad. Reflect and give yourself a chance to move on. first you ust to forgive yourself then after that you can find a space to forgive that someone who hurt you. NOt all are the same time frame in healing but it depends on how you help yourself.

just be happy with the way you are.. and eventually youll find your special someone in God's time, we just have to be patient for special things to come. :-)

it's never easy to forget. that sad part of our lives will always be a part of us forever. but it's nice to be able to forgive and move on after sometime.

yeah i agree, its very unhealthy. we should remember the feeling self pity will not help us move on instead it will worsen the feeling of pain. we should not hold back to the past that was not there anymore. its a way of acceptance.

you have to know that in order to heal you must choose to let go of the person. As i understand you still not thats why its still hurts. Your ex bf sense that you still love him thats why he abuse it and know how to handle you. You must to let go and free yourself from him. Then after letting go you can move on and try to build new relationship with that someone your making friendship. i will share this statement that my friend told about me during the period i was struggling. This person cares for me too much and love me but sometimes he said that a person cares for another, has to take ons step backwards, in order to get two steps ahead. I shall explain with an analogy. When a person loses a love one, for example, a mother loses a child, the mother must go through a period of mourning which involves great suffering and often a long period of time before she can be mentally and spiritually whole. The same period of mourning is necessary when a lover victim loses a lover. Before the victim is healthy and her wholesome self, she must complete a period of mourning which is ever so painful and time consuming. But what happens when her period of mourning is interrupted by a new boyfriend? She is stunted, she cannot grow and return to full helath. she cannot give herself becuase she is afraid, she cannot be at peace with herself. her boyfriend will love her but she will not be able to return the love in the same way. she will be afraid and mistrusting because her past lover has stolen her heart and she hasnt got it back yet. what you do need is to find a reason to live and a reason to love again. so you have to let go. Dont dwell on the past instead learn from it.

i think time heals alot of things. its the best medicine to take! you might always remember, but the pain goes to a smaller degree. you learn from all of these things that happen to you. you might not really know it now, but there is a reason for everything, and you just have to go on and not think about it anymore.

thanks girl. You do help me overcome it. thanks for the shoulder to cry on hehehe. Now i can face the world with a smile.

yes definitely. we should really dwell on the past so we can move on.