LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT? do you believe this?
By nengs10
@nengs10 (3180)
Philippines
10 responses
@yanstill (1490)
• China
12 Apr 07
well for me,i never believe that.and i still cant figure out why people fall in love at the first sight.maybe just because i dont know what is love.if two person dont know each other well,how can they fall in love?love at first sight,i think that need a charming appearence or a remarkable personality.well it's too complicated.
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@sallyxu126 (1184)
• China
12 Apr 07
I believe this .
Distiny will arrange your love, then you might love him or she when you see him or her at first sight.
But for someone, they will never love a person at first sight.
I think it is also distiny.
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@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I think it's possible to feel chemistry and a connection at first sight, but lasting love takes time to grow. It is my feeling that there are too many people out there expecting that instantaneous movie "love" and they think that it's not real if it's not effortless. Real life "messy" love is ever so much more satisfying, if also a pain sometimes!
@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
12 Apr 07
I 'loved' Bruce before I ever saw him. We'd been talking off and on for 7 years on the computer and telephone. But yes, I 'do' believe there are people that love at first sight does happen to.
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
uh i guess i find my self very cynic about love ,love for me is something that is learned over time, and not by just meeting someone and then the "spark" flares or the bells start ringing..
@aweins (4199)
• India
12 Apr 07
well, quite an interesting discussion and something of my interest. Yes, i believe in LOVE but love at first sight Hmmmmmmmmmmm........ i really cant say. i think its lust , its my opinion. i think that if you don't know a person, you donno his/her nature how can you love that person. If the person is just the opposite what you are then what will you do? you'll end up your life in frustation that whay is this person like this when you love him/her soooooooooooooooooooo much .
At first sight you sees only the the outer beauty , and that beauty is the reason for you to be attracted towards him/her and the feeling inside you at that time gives the message to your brain that you are in love , or love at first sight.
Mat be possible that the moment you found to spend some time with him/her you find it sooooooooooooooooo revolting that you thank GOD for not confessing your love infront of that person. Because, love is a thing whch is to be felt from within. Its very pure and pious. You must have heard people saying that love is blind and has no language. Love is blind because when you love a person you dont wanna see his/her bad side. or to be put in right words, you are so much in love towards that person that you are simply blind in his/her attraction.One should know that everyone has some negatives in him/her.the only difference is that in some the negatives are more and in some they are less.
Love has no language because a person who is in love understands the language of eyes which becomes neccessary from them to learn and know.
So if you are in love see if the person can really merge in you, the best is that both should mix in each other like salt in water.
@Karmalina (647)
• Australia
12 Apr 07
I believe you can instantly become extremely attracted to someone based on the way they look, their body movement, their "aura" if you believe in such things, but as far as real love goes I don't believe that you can fall in love with someone just by seeing them. I've met people I've felt instantly attracted to in this way, but I never really felt love or the possibility of it until I spoke with them 1 on 1.
@bokachoda (80)
• India
12 Apr 07
i dont believe in love at first sight.it does not mean that i dont believe in love.of course i believe in love.but only first sight is not necessery for a true love.we have to know each other,share our ideas with each other.our ideas ,thoughts must be same.then only then a true love happens.nor problems may arise later.so be suer that it is a true love.
@martinedy (38)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 07
No, I dont think so about love at first sight. It's not love but like. According to me, love is deeper than like. So, at the first sight, You aren't falling in love, but in like.