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This should be something that is discussed prior to taking those vows. I knew before I got married that I wanted at least two children. My husband thought the same thing. If he said he didn't want children, I'd have to think long and hard if I wanted to marry him in the first place and give up my dream.

I think if one person does, and the other doesn't, it's going to be an uphill battle all the way. One of them is going to get what they want, and the other will feel resentful the entire time. I think they would ahve to talk it out and really decide if they want to continue in a relationship like that

I will have to think if I still want to be with this person or not. Because I definitely want to have kids.

I will talk to him and insists that i want to have a baby and tell him the good advantages of having a baby. I won't stop until I had persuaded him to have even just one. If begging is necessary, I'll do it. I'll pray for the Lords guidance to enlighten him, to brighten his perspective in life.

I think if one person wants a baby, and the other sincerely doesn't, I can't really see a future between the couple. Even if one decides to compromise, I think they will gorw to resent the other person, for making them choose. I think it would be a mistake if someone didn't want a child to agree, just for the sake of the relationship, because they in turn may grow to resent the child, too.