what to do of these selfish people

@hi1234 (175)
India
April 12, 2007 4:42am CST
hi...friends i hate selfish people.how do u tackle them??i cant stand them.how can someone just think of himself and hurt others for his benefit.but these world is filled with such people. plz do advice on these topic bcoz i have left many friends due to there selfish nature.they look ugly from inside.i just dont kniw why do i feel like these.may be i m hypersensitive to such people or i m taking them too seriously.
4 responses
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
If I were in your shoes and had friends like them, I would probably leave them too. I might eventually become selfish like them. If you're close enough I think you should talk to them about it. They're the ones with the attitude problem, not you. Don't worry too much about it. You don't need a selfish person for a friend, you're better off without them.
@hi1234 (175)
• India
12 Apr 07
i have talked with them many a times.but they r shameless and they accept their selfishness as if its not their vice but a great virtue.and they will try to make me feel asif i m making a mistake by not being selfish
• Switzerland
12 Apr 07
hmm i think sometimes it is good to be a lil bit selfish, but not in every way. i'm selfish with my feelings and for what i'm standing for. i don't want to get hurt and sometimes it can be better to be a lil bit selfish. don't understand me wrong, because i hate selfish peoples too. but it's a lil bit like a protect. i'm a human with a big heart and i respect everyone, but sometimes it is better to take care for yourself and your own problems. the most peoples are selfish and do you think they take care about me? i let them life how they are, they must come clearly with their attiutes and not me. i don't care about them.
• India
12 Apr 07
hi i also hates selfish people .i don't like to talk with them becoz i m very kind person and never speakes lie. i hates lier who always with us in happyness but leaves us in trouble.ur point is verry correct about this thought
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Apr 07
Hi there! I don't like selfish people either. I think that they are blinded by the material things and loves themselves too much as to forget about being sensitive to others' needs. Anyways, if I look at them as my true friends and I would really like to stay friends with them, I will tell them how I feel and what I think about their attitude. I'll hope that they will take it as a constructive criticsm. If they don't then maybe they don't look at me as their real friend because I am only concerned about them and I don't wanna lose our friendship that's why I am telling them that. If they don't value how much I care for them then they may not be worth it after all.