What is the best age to have babby in ur life
By skunal007
@skunal007 (68)
Australia
April 12, 2007 7:26am CST
Well life to going fast this days....everyboy is busy this days running here and there making money and doing a lot in life.............so after marriage there is question like what is the best time to have a baby in your life.........so plz lets share ur experience and let us knwo the best time to have a baby in your life and plz also let us knw the reason for it according to u......................Kunal
5 responses
@mypeace (393)
• Nigeria
12 Apr 07
Answering from you comment, I think the best age is between 18 and 35yrs. Am not a medical person, but I learnt that at 18 a woman's pevic system is matured to handle a baby. I also learnt that at anything more than 35 it becomes risky to have babies. Notwithstanding there are many exemptions, some pple have healthy children at less than 18 and above 35.
On the other hand, there is no specific age limit, a woman starts having children at a time she feels emotional ready for motherhood and financial capability.
Personlly, I plan to finish having my children before age 35 by God's grace.
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@touchnshine (2821)
• India
12 Apr 07
I don't think there is a "best" age to have a baby. Because everyone is an individual and reaches certain emotional and financial security at different time. Each person individually will know when a good time to conceive would be. Best age is hard .. some women are ready at 19.. some not till 30 or older .. It's upto that woman .. I think it's harder at a younger age because of finance and maturity but otherwise it really depends on the woman . But NOT under 16 .
@skunal007 (68)
• Australia
12 Apr 07
thks for ur frank response....but i m concerned more abt physically part of this question and that also in general......like as a woman how safe is for u to have baby and at what age......there r rare cases of getting baby at 14 and some other immature ages....but in general when it is safe for a woman to have baby
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
12 Apr 07
If I say the truth .. don't hate me ...
Well I am not married .. but whenever I think about giving birth to a baby .. I feel like I can never be ready.. Like I said some women are not ready till 30. So if u want to know my answer about this .. I will say .. I can never be ready for this.. I can think about adopting a child rather than giving birth to a baby.. That's what I want .. but I know my husband will have different views :))
@apakabar2007 (1693)
• Netherlands
13 May 07
In my opinion the best age to have baby is before you reach age 40. Because when you got pregnant after 40 will be pretty risky not only for health of the baby self but for yourself. I don't say it is not possible, it's just too risky....
@serena_wai (970)
• Malaysia
14 May 07
To me, i will think the best age is 28-35.
28 is the age that women should have done what we wanna do in our younger life: crazy night life, heavy travelling, acting beach babe wearing sexy bikini, spend money & pamper ourself. So, i can say we are ready to progress to another process of our life - to become a mother! ;p Loyal to family, stable career, more family life, more comforts in life as saving is already accummulated in past several years.
Well, it is just my opinion. Guess different people has different view. ;p
@jolmartyn (129)
•
12 Apr 07
Tricky,
If you are really young, then having one early is great, you can chase round after it and do lots of active things, However you may not be as well off, living at your parents' and not financially stable. Experience just doesn't count, you don't know how it feels until you have one of your own. If you are older, you may be more finacially secure , a place of your own and a bit more experience of other people's children. Also your friends may have had theirs and be too old for your nipper to play with them. There is something rather sad about being the 35 year old father at the parenting class too when every one else is 20. If you have your child when you are young it will have left home when you are still young enough to have a bit of life left. If you have a child in your 40's, it can still be at home as you start your pension. I say have it young!