What So You Fear the Most in Your Marriage?

Sounds like your husband's other woman is his "race car"! Is it an emotional affair or a one night stand. (lol!)

I would fear the "emotional" affair also. It is hard for someone to break away from another person whenever thier heart and sould is involved. A "one night stand" is just what it is, a "one night stand". An emotional affair can lead to a divorce.

Ultimately they both lead to divorce - it depends if the affair is found out and how much it affects the relationship. But if one partner meets someone and prefers them to his current partner, the marriage might not have been sufficiently strong in the first place.

An emotional affair can lead to your husband or wife leaving you. I know of a case where two people started out as good friends (male/female). They had a lot in common and talked often on the phone and in e-mails. It was not long before they met for lunch one day, (he traveled six hours to see her), and ended up in bed together. They both knew that it was wrong and tried to break it off, but they became more involved with each other. Now, they are talking about leaving thier spouses so that they can be together. They were both married to abusive people. So, an emotional affair is more dangerous. Sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with.