what if you get proposed by two ppl???
By karanchadha
@karanchadha (123)
India
April 12, 2007 9:18am CST
suppose u dont have a partner...but u want to have one....one day u get proposed by a guy/gal n before u have answered him/her get proposed by another one...given that both dont know each other n wont come to know either n both are gud,how will u choose???will u choose both??how will u decide???come up with ur insights n experiences(if any).....
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7 responses
@derek_a (10874)
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12 Apr 07
Well I would say that if I had no serious intentions of getting involved, there is no harm in seeing both, but I would tell each of them that it is just friendship dating and we are both free to see other people.
If I developed strong feelings for one of them, I would let the other know that I wouldn't be seeing her anymore as it wouldn't be appropriate.
If I developed strong feelings for both of them, then I'd have a problem and I had better sort it ASAP... :-)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Apr 07
Do you mean that in the course of two days two men asked me out on a date? Or do you mean that they asked me to marry them? If they are asked me out on a date, I would go out with both.And after the first date I would pick which one I liked the best. But if they want to marry me, I wouldn't marry either.We don't know each other that well.
@mypeace (393)
• Nigeria
12 Apr 07
its a good new to get proposal, but it can be confusing if you have many at a time. You cant choose the two,l dont believe you can marry two guys at the same time,if they are really serious for life time relationship lol, Anyway, just pray about it, and go with your instinct.
What so people do is to date the two guys secretly and now settle with the one that has the likelihood for a life time relationship. however, I dont like double dating, its has lots of headaches and hide and seek games.
@little_angel (2458)
• Australia
12 Apr 07
I will choose one of them, a man that connect with me and nice with me and the most important is that my parent like him too. And i'm sure that i only love with one man. We can't merried with 2 ppl right?
@TotalEclipse (157)
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12 Apr 07
What do you mean by propose... as in marriage?
Propose as in dating I would say date both for a while and see which you like best but be upfront about it and tell them both that you are dating someone else as well. Dating after all is about getting to know someone better.
If you mean propose as in getting married I dont think I'd accept either since you make it sound like you hardly know either of them.
