Why did you get married? Right decision?

I got married because I honestly felt that I had found my other half. My husband and I are so different, yet so alike and although this can cause a lot of friction, it also means that we complement each other so very well. I already had a son with my husband before we got married, and I really felt that marrying the father of my son was the right thing to do, things just kept getting more and more complicated without that marriage license as it was difficult to get insurance etc. I cannot even imagine how difficult it must be to get a marriage to work, when you have not chosen your partner yourself. It is difficult enough as it is, when love is the reason.

i got married because i want someone who can be by my side anytime i want. i can only get that if i have someone lives with me. i can't move in with some guy, it is not allowed in my religion. when u are married, you'll always have someone to share your feelings with, do lots of things together, especially things that u are shy to do with your friends. just to know that u have someone to come home to is enough for me.

Yeah mine was a big mistake. I wish I had never gotten married I mean not even 4 month after my husband cheated on me. I wish I would of know sooner instead of wasting another 6 months and before Christmas when he finally decided to leave me.

I had not get married yet, i did not even have a boyfriend at this moment, I still have long way to go to get marry. In western cultures, marriage is not a must, in fact, people tend not to get marry,they prefer cohabitation, by not getting marry, they will not regret even they find out that their partner is not the right one, one can still change their mind by not getting marry, they may get some monetary benefit from the government if they just live together. As you say, marriage is a must in your culture, it is unavoidable for you, and if you find the right one, why not get marry right now, although nothing is guarantee, getting marry at least make your relationship stable and you both will have the responsibilities and motivation for a better life.

Im not yet married but I also ask my mom that question.She said she got married because she loves my dad.And I think that should be the main reason why a person will get married.But its a complicated issue for it has a lot of factors like culture.Its not that easy as talking about it.But still I think it is because you love the person.

As of this moment, I do not regret being married because my husband is a good husband. If you love your spouse, I don;t think there is room for regret.

I got married because I believe I had found my soul mate that I can live till my ripe old age. I didn't get married just for the sake of getting married. We need to find someone who shares the same desires, dreams and goals for that marriage to work. Definitely, there'll be hiccups along the way... You need to give and take and learn from each others deficiencies... Love also play an important role in marriage. How do you marry someone without loving and knowing that person first? However, being married has its flipside too. You tend to lose part of your freedom. However, you can overcome this by communicating your needs to your partner. It is all about giving and taking.... Take heart...

"I will I didn't get married" Is that mean you have got married? That's right. Except that you want to divorce, or there is no "wish"!

I hope you will allowed me to answer this discussion, even if i am not married yet. I will get married if I'm pretty confident that this guy is the right one for me. He will be able to help me with my weakness and I will be able to help him with his weakness. There was times where we will regrets this marriage, that's pretty sure. Especially if both of us quarrel to each other. But I'm pretty sure that it will my right decision. I hope you will too. Some regrets will occur during time, but if you keep on respecting to each other, those time will faded away.