How will you react if somebody may criticise you?
By jayanvarkala
@jayanvarkala (489)
India
April 13, 2007 1:25am CST
Do you like criticism? Most of the people don't like others criticising them and they are very much interested in criticising others. Am I wright? I also have the same nature. If some body criticise me i will strongly argue with them that they are not correct eventhough they are pointing out the truth. I never agree anything. How will you face criticism.
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7 responses
@darkzzt (757)
• Canada
13 Apr 07
i hate being criticized. i agree, it is very easy to criticize others without thinking about how they will feel about it. i will just have to try to better myself so next time the criticizer will stop criticizing me.
you should also try to nurture your self-esteem, so that you are less susceptible to the negative effects of criticism.
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@frodloo (424)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 07
i dont know , may be i will disregard it as good as well i can. i love peace, but if i couldn`t disregard it, i will face it and try to criticize they back :D if someone want to criticize me, they should have accurate fact so i will face it back.
have nice day.
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@maribea (2366)
• Italy
13 Apr 07
well it depends....if I did something wrong or if the people is criticising me to help me discover a wrong thing or my good (so to make me improve), I usually accept the fact and try to think about what I am said...these are what you can name as a good way of moving a critic...but there are people who live only for criticising others, because they have a sort of divine right, because they are the ones who know how things have to be done and are the only ones who can do everything well...of course, these people make me furious and I don't accept them talking with me and criticising me only because they like listening to the sound of their voices...it is difficult living and making decisions and nobody can honestly say he or she would have done better than you because he wasn't in the same conditions as you...simply he wasn't you...imagine how I could hate people saying..if I were you...you weren't ..simple, or not????
@zing_i (269)
• United States
17 Apr 07
I feel v v sick and angry at that very moment when some one criticises me,but later I sit down and try to analys the whole situation and try to think what the problem was in all aspects and later come try to find out whos mistake it was and after get an answer I feel better and let it go
@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
14 Apr 07
Hi, I dont think anyone likes to be criticised, but without the critics how would we build better products. Me personally I dont like to be critised, it makes me think alot about myself and how not treat others. Sometime though I have caught myself being critical and when that happens I stop myself in an instant, well I try to anyway
@skbadhan (879)
• India
24 Apr 07
if cricism is constructive i welcome it. i personaly don't like to criticise untill and unless the resultant is going to harm me. i would like to suggest not to criticise specialy ur friends that's to very frequently because as the result u may lose them. if i do need to criticise someone i would take front approch in stead talking in back.