love or money?

China
April 13, 2007 8:38am CST
should girls marry for love or money? for love, she refused a rich man and went to a city far from her home with the man to build their life, but the man is not trusty and grateful, after marriage, when she turns old under life pressure, when he gets more money, he became hating her wrinkled eyes and thinking about another woman, she is just like a leaf in wind, no love, unreturned life. if at the beginning she chose the rich man life would be totally different, but who can tell? is it just because of destiny?
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@simran1430 (1790)
• India
13 Apr 07
Here's a universal truth about your money and your man: Money may not buy love, but fighting about it will bankrupt your relationship.How is it that people can proclaim to love one another, sleep with each other, and even have children together, yet they won't do what it takes to stop fighting about money?Once you move past the dating phase and decide to marry, it's time to change your financial relationship with your boyfriend. It's time to be as open with him about your money as you have been with your heart -- and everything else, for that matter.Relationships and investing are both complex subjects in their own right - mixing the two can sometimes be a recipe for disaster.
• China
14 Apr 07
I found most friends and I have encountered this problem: once we had true love, we love them with heart, and when we departed we had deep sorrow, we can't help crying and addicting sweet memory, and the reason we departed is that they don't have enough money...some of my friends fight against with their families to keep their true love, but they are now leading an unhappy or even hard life...maybe you are right, but i am just confused, don't know what to choose, love or money, hehehe