Single mom with a dilemma

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I am a single mom of a five month old baby girl, her father is great with her and see her a few times a week and most of the weekend. He is very hands on. My problem is, we broke up just before I found out that I was pregnant and he did not want me to have her. I wouldn't ever think of abortion and it hurt me. Well he finally realized that there was no way in h*ll that I was getting rid of her and that he would have to be responsible. Since then (it has been a year) he has tried to get me back. Once we had the baby, he fell in love with her and wanted to be a family. I just don't know if this is a good idea because there obvioucly were reasons for us breaking up, one ironically was that he didn't want kids, he's good with her know but is that because she was an accident. Now that we have Brooke I still don't know if he wants more... I want 5 kids. I don't want to have a broken home for her but I also don't want a home where her parents fight. We are so different and would need to make changes. And if he agrees to have other kids just to get us back, I don't want to waste years with him if he changes his mind. I desperately need help, what do you guys think?