What's the hardest thing to say to your love one?

I think the hardest thing for me to say to my partner is: Honey, I'm pregnant (and I'm a boy), lol! just kidding... Anyway, it's the goodbye that really pulls out the tears from lovers' eyes. I've never done that but I can imagine how it would feel like to say something like it to someone who you had some of the best times of your life with. What if, you just have to go to someplace/someone else and have to be separated due to some unfortunate circumstances; I don't think saying goodbye is gonna come easy for me. Boys cry too you know, we're not numb or anything like that, and goodbyes just doesn't add up for all the times we've been together with our girlfriends.

I think the hardest thing for me to tell my husband right now is, sorry we just cant afford to do that this week. We are going through some financial problems and there is no money left for movies or dinners out right now.

The hardest thing we've ever had to say to eachother was goodbye before it was time for me to fly back home from Arizona. We knew how much we'd miss eachother, and now we miss eachother even more. It was darn near impossible, and it still hurts a month and a half later.

Yes, that was the hardest thing I ever said, too. We are seperated until he becomes a better man, and his eyes have been opened. At first he handled it so badly and was so mean about it. But now I think he truly sees the err in his ways, and I have high hopes for change.