What does it mean if your ex keep texting and calling?
By sansue
@sansue (57)
Philippines
8 responses
@eriennenadine (211)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
Maybe the ex really misses you, or isn't really over you yet. Or maybe the ex just needs someone to talk to and yours just happens to be the only number listed in their phonebook. It could be a lot of things. It would actually really depend on what the ex is saying when he/she is texting or calling you.
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@hugsandkisses (54)
• United States
16 Jan 08
No matter what the reasons they want to project, the bottom line is: they want to annoy you.
@pink_passion (279)
• Philippines
11 Jan 08
I experienced it. It means the person still cares for you because he takes time to get in touch with you. I think he just realized that he still loves you and wants to win you back.
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Base on my opinion it depends on what is the message that way you will know his intention and purpose it can be he cant get over you, he wants u back,he still care for and be your friend, it also depends on how you guys ended your relationship... so it depends on the message on what is the reason. but it needs a clarification and settlement what do you want so he will not disturb or meddle with your new life if you still love him so talked with him but if you had move on already you must tell him frankly so he wont expect things he wanted to.
@sloanjosiecat79 (299)
• United States
15 Apr 07
it sounds to me like the ex has issues with letting go of the relationship. you may want to tell them as firmly, but as nicely, as you can that since the relationship is over and do not contact for a while.
@rockergal07 (118)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
Maybe your ex wants to get back together with you! Ahem! ;) Maybe your ex can't accept the fact that you two aren't together anymore, and maybe your ex still loves you and misses you so much. ;) :)
@racheld (840)
• United States
13 Apr 07
I'm going through this problem right now. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and he has been texting me at least ten times a day and he still insists on calling me at night time. He says he still loves me and wants to be with me, but since that isn't an option for him, he says he will try being friends. I told him if he is going to be my friend then he has to decrease the number of calls and texts. So far he hasn't and he says its because he still can't except the fact its over and he thinks about me all the time. So based on my ex-boyfriend's behavior and words, I would say that when your ex is calling and texting you repeatedly its because he/she can't get over you as easily as you got over him. He/she wants you two to be together again and they are hoping you feel the same way and that's why they are constantly trying to talk to you. That's what I think!
@gbolly54 (661)
• Nigeria
14 Apr 07
It is either of 2 things: she wants to come back or she wants you to be mere friends. You need to find out which is which. If it is the former, there is no harm in taking her back if you have not replaced her yet, and you are still in love with her. Such a reunion could be great. If it is the latter, it is ok as well, if you 2 parted on mutual understanding. You don't have to become enemies simply by not being lovers anymore. You could be useful to each other in several other ways in future.