What Is The Best Thing/Experience Of Being In A Relationship?
By marababe
@marababe (2503)
Philippines
April 14, 2007 4:28am CST
well, i've been single for quite a while now (i'm still young so i'm not in such a hurry) but i'm starting to miss having someone around. so i'm starting to reminisce and all.
what's the best thing of being in a relationship for you? or the best experience you've had with your special someone? :)
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6 responses
@Danewlyweds (195)
• United States
15 Apr 07
The best thing of being in a relationship is waking up next to my sweatheart every day and knowing that my baby loves me and feels the same. Its good to know that everything we do, accomplish, learn, and love we'll be side by side for the rest of our life.
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@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
15 Apr 07
Every time my friend and I spend bonding moments we sometimes get into the discussion about how it is to be married and that is exactly what he told me. That he feels good knowing that his wife will be there beside him when he goes to sleep and when he wakes up. I think it's sweet.
@marci3 (245)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
Companionship is one of, if not the primary, benefits of being in a relationship. You have someone to talk to, share your emotions and problems with and a shoulder to cry on. A partner also gives that feeling of security--you somehow feel that you are not alone and that someone is always there to guide you every step of the way. Having a partner also makes us develop our emotions and our minds.
But I guess, in the end, the best thing about being in relationship is that unexplainable feeling--that you love and are loved, that you care and are taken care of, that you trust and are trusted, and that you are happy and are making someone else happy.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
•
14 Apr 07
i think three things are best and why i remain happy in my relationships. First of all it is companionship. I think its great to have someone to share events with and someone to discuss your life.
Second, i think relationships allow us to be intimate, to develop special feelings and express them fully. This is good for mental health.
Third, I think relationships provide stability in an unstable world. A kind of psychic refuge, somewhere to close out a stressful and unfriendly world
blessed be
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
thanks for the reply!
i agree with you about the 3 best things but maybe the one thing that i'm really missing about being in a relationship right now is the feeling of companionship. because although i have many friends (and guy friends for that matter) i still miss having that ONE person that i know i can be with anytime anywhere.
i wish i can be in a relationship like yours that "provide stability in an unstable world" because my previous one is mainly about being unstable only. :)
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@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
14 Apr 07
I am in a long distance relationship which at first, I thought it would never work. But guess what, it is almost three years and we are serious in this relationship and planning to get married soon. I think the best thing about being in relationship is we learn to understand and get to know each other deeply. It's a process to grow up and be wiser. Cheers!
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
14 Apr 07
The best thing for me is to know that I always have someone ready to back me up, someone to lean on in bad times and someone to laugh with in good times.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
well, the best thing or experience in my relationship right now, is that i'm super to the max in love with my honey..though he's so far away from me, but still i can feel and i know that he is trustworthy guy, that he respects and truly love me..that my honey really wanted me to be with him for the rest of his life..it's nice to be in love and be loved right?
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Trust should be number one especially that your guy is far away from you right now. You should have strong foundation in your relationship and trust each other.
Yes, it's good to love and be loved but since I don't have this kind of special someone the only persons that I love and receive love from are my dearest friends and family.
