If i lose my charm after becoming a mother?

Who says that you will going to lose you're charming after give birth? To tell you, i just give birth last 2005, my son is one year old now. When i get pregnant my husband told me that i look more sexy & that make me feel good. After give birth, it's true that there will be little different from you're body shape before. But it doesn't mean that will lose you're charm. I had an advice for you. First,you should take good care of you're self like before. If you had you're partner you should take good care more because you & you're partner will see each other every now & then. Second, you should build more you're confidence because that makes you more charming than before! GOOD LUCK!

i donn agree wit dat..it is true that after the delivery women gain weight but u can get back to ur shape by living ur life the same way as b4 and doin some simple exercise

anyone can be as charming as they want to, it is not only how you look, but also the way you feel about yourself, if you think you are not charming, good looking, or anything else, you need to re-evaluate the situation. I have found out that oddly, a lot of guys, find females that have had a baby more attractive that those who havn't, why, I do not know.

no u can't,and i wish u to u can give birth 2 more children in ur life

I'm a mother of two kids,one to go 5th std and other jus 4 months.. I don think that i losed my charm and also children are the major wealth of our life.. so please don think of your charm and beauty as they are the living gifts for us. so be happy for becoming a mother and also enjoy each movements of your baby in your womb. Nisha

Oh God no! I find that I'm more charming now that I'm a mother. I feel more sexy and more confident, knowing that I grew a child in my body and I gave birth to her. It's not an easy task, and I'm proud of myself for accomplishing it. Motherhood is the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I feel that it's made me a "deeper" person, and certainly more charming. At least my fiance thinks so. lol.

That is absolutely NOT true! You can be just as charming, if not more. To me, it's all about personal choice. If you choose to let yourself go and let things overwhelm you, it will. But if you choose to be on top of things and take good care of yourself, you will go back to what you were before you were pregnant or maybe even better. For me, I look better now that before I was pregnant. I exercise more and ate better than before. As a result, I'm skinnier now than before I was pregnant. I also look better and is healthier.