could you tell me the reason for my fearing for getting married ,constently?
By slei2001
@slei2001 (6)
China
April 15, 2007 6:10am CST
recently,my girlfriend requested for our marriage certificate. being an student studying for my master degree without any working experiences, i think it's terriable to do that. i feel that i'm totally not mature in psychology. besides, we have no money for our daily expense including the house,commute,ect. But,all the things mentioned above mean noting for her. it's impossible for me to persuade her to face the reality whiling admiting that i love her so much that i will marry her sometime in the near future after getting a job. the one who is in dilemma is willing to hear your voice and opinions. thanks a million!
2 responses
@intheplane (145)
• China
8 May 07
if i were you,i would try my best to persuwade her to give up the idea.because you can't give her happiness and any assureance.you love her doesn't mean you have to marry her.
the most important thing is the economic basic.moeny is the most important thing to all the thing .in my opinion,you can marry her only if you have a good job and enough money.if you were married now,you and your wife would find it was wrong to do it.ln ordet to have a good future i suggest you have better not marry with her until you believe you can give any promise to her.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
18 Apr 07
im really with you. it is good that you are also thinking about the situation, love is not enough, not at all. i mean this can be a serious cause of problem in the future. but what you need to do is give her more assurance so she will not feel neglected.
