My heart is borken!!!

Sorry to hear that! Many couples have been together for a long period of time. But, the time wasn't the basis of a good relationship. Whatever happened between you and your ex will be a lesson for you. Not to do to others what you hated from your ex most. You have to move on. The only thing that makes it difficult to move on is looking at your past that doesn't belong to your future...Move on!

If said wrong words, don't angry with me. I think you still love her,or you will not be hurt. Just because you love her, any words with hurt said by her, you will feel very angry and heart broken. I think if you really decide to leave her, I have nothing to say. If not, just listen her explaination.

Hi there. Sorry for your heartbreak. If you feel you don't want to return to your ex then by all means obey your mind. The number of years you spend in a relationship is not the issue but the quality of that relationship and how much it has added to your life. However, make sure you settle the issue properly so that you can move ahead beside, know you pitfalls and mistakes so that you don't repeat them so you'll get into another relationship very soon.

I left my almost 6 yrs husband ... harder isnt it? He found somebody new...and holding on? i did that already for 2 yrs... but then i realize that its doing no good so i let go... That was really sad... but as you have said you wont come back to her anymore. Well thats it! I know its really hard picking up the pieces...when youre alone already... you'll miss her of course... but charge everything to experience... start moving on... dont think of the memories... it will only magnify your present pain. Be thankful of the past 2 years with her... she for sure contribute to you as a person... well in life there is no guarantee... breaking up is part of relationship... but soon you will find the right reason why you lost her... maybe someone better will come along or you just both need some time alone... Right now... take all the strength that you have and move on with your life. I know its not easy... but you can do it... you will recover each day if you help yourself... I know... Ive been on your shoes once...actually harder than what you experience... i know you can make it... And if this will make you feel better... I found the reason why GOD allow it to happen... and believe Im happier right now... And if I should have to undergo that pain again to be this happy... I will accept it with all of my heart...

if you want to cry then cry. don't keep it inside. find a peaceful place and let it all out. all of us guys has experience this believe me. if you could find a good friend who would listen it would be a better. if you can't find anyone at the moment, then a good cry will do. mourn for you lost for a time and then move on. try to busy yourself with creative things. read a book or take a vacation, visit a relative, volunteer for community service, etc. keep away from things or places that will remind you of her. mylot is a good distraction to keep yourself busy, its open 24 hours a day.

A lot of people have felt that way in one way or another... the best thing for you to do is to move on with your life... think of all the good things that you can do without your girlfriend... stop dwelling in the past because there is a very bright future ahead of you.

CONGRATUALTIONS!! Hearts are broken everyday, welcome to club! :D This is the best thing to do. Be happy about it, step on your heart and MOVE ON, becuase anything else you will do will bring you down to the verge of depression. DON'T GO THERE. certainly not for her or anyone. Whatever pain you feel inside, pay no attention to it. Time will mend your broken heart . . .