a problem for communication between lovers
By sallyxu126
@sallyxu126 (1184)
China
April 16, 2007 1:08am CST
we are all busy in modern society, and we spent less time on love life and dating .
Even we are dating, we might think about other things which will hurt the other one in love.
For example, I want to talk with my boy friend,but he is busy with his work and have no time to talk with me.
Then I feel very complaint and hurt , and I don't want to tell him anything about me,even if he ask.
I know it is not good,but I still have this feelings,that I don't want to talk with him.
if you have this kind of problem?
and how you settle it?
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5 responses
@mypeace (393)
• Nigeria
16 Apr 07
Communication is a key to a successful relationship. Any lover, who is too busy not to talk to his/her loved one is not in love. Does it mean that he is 24hours busy. If he has chance to eat food, then he should have time to put a telephone across to you even if he is too busy to see you in person.
On your path, keeping to yourself is not the solution, you are giving a wide gap in ur relationship, why not talk to him and tell him how you feel with his actions. It is only when you talk your mind that you will have a successful relationship, or else two of will be drifting away.
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
16 Apr 07
thats not good, you have to tell him about this, if you continue on relationship without communication then why you keep the relationship? when i have this kind of problem i will demand a day to talk to him seriously and ask if he still want to continue this relationship or not, if he still want too then he got to change
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
16 Apr 07
I think the art of communication has been lost, maybe with todays technology, and maybe that today people are so self absorbed they just don't bother to listen and connect with other people anymore...more people should try walking in the other persons shoes for awhile...
@kent_potat (65)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 07
Tolerate is the most suitable solution in your case. if you can tolerate with your boyfriend, i think you may deserve better....
