worst thing a "friend" has ever done to you
By pamilicious
@pamilicious (265)
Malaysia
11 responses
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
17 Apr 07
I believe friends are suppose to lend their helping hand, when you are in need and trouble, when you badly need their assistance. I on my part, try to be as helpful as possible but when I am in trouble and my frined do not come for my rescue (sometimes due to genine reasons, sometimes not so genuine) then I feel very bad. Because it is a human tendency ...expectation from your near and dear ones...including friends. When you are sad, disappointed, down in dumps.....you need someone to encourage you and face the harsh realities of life... in that situation if a friend reaches you with help, nothing like that.
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 07
i belive true friends will be at your side no matter your situation.. i try to be helpful too at all times coz i believe in karma very much. thanks for sharing your thought dpk2006!
@krembolizer (49)
• Indonesia
17 Apr 07
The worst? Cheating on my money!
I guess they'd like to make friends for money only.
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 07
people who rips you off your money are not qualified to called friends.. they're big no-use liars.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Apr 07
Worse thing a friend has ever done to me is promise to keep a secret and then go blab it all over the world..that is our little world ..:(+
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
16 Apr 07
I would say the worst thing that a friend has done to me was to promise to fix my computer which had problems and he never returned my computer and disappeared. He promised it would be done in a week and now two years have gone by and no computer and can not reach this ex friend of mine. He kept coming up with lies and excuses for why it was taking so long to fix it. It is not nice to talk behind peoples backs and spread rumors like you encountered. Hope that you were able to get them to stop doing that.
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 07
at first i cared about what people think of me because of the lies she spread but after a while, i really just dont care anymore. let them say whatever they wanna say about me the important thing is i know what im doing and what im doing is not wrong. ive had a similar experience like yours but mine was a vcr and from what i heard, this 'friend' of mine fixed it & sold it off. Liars are no good people. they should all live together on a deserted island far far away
@kawaiijamichan (773)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
that also happened to me and not just that, she will also leave you behind after all the things that you've done for her. such a selfish girl. i do not know why sometimes a person can be so mean even if you're treating them nice. when you happen to see her across the street she wouldnt even glance at you as if you've never met
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 07
some people, huh? ive known some people like that too and its so sad. for so long i think of what i did wrong to them and i couldnt find any. so i decided to do the same.. i will only talk to them or smile at them if they talk/ smile at me first.
@ruhiagrawal (105)
• India
16 Apr 07
my best frnd accused me in front of so many people nit was such awful feeling i cant just explain how bad i felt
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 07
that must be awful.. i hope you're doing well now. people sometimes jump into conclusion without figuring what is really happening and who is actually responsible without thinking other people's feelings.
@clod0327 (817)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
The worst thing a friend has ever done to me was to trade all the years of our friendship and turn against us just to be with his boyfriend.
We have been friends for more than 5 years when she met his boyfriend. We accepted her boyfriend in our group and treated him as one of our friends also. But we really did not know what happened, because my friend just stopped going out with us, she won’t reply to our phone calls or even reply to our text. Then we just found out that his boyfriend has no time to go with us because he’s busy (with I don’t know what) so he doesn’t want hi girlfriend to meet us with out him. Then we just found out that they already moves to another county without even saying goodbye to us.
She was my best friend so it’s really painful for me for her to throw all our years of friendship just like that.
@recycledgoth (9894)
•
16 Apr 07
Four years ago I agreed to rent my spare room to a *friend* and she moved in with all her stuff. She was in a very well paid job and could easily afford the low rent I asked. She was here for just over a year and never paid me a penny in rent, or paid for her food, she borrowed my clothes, she helped herself to all my food and drink, and generally took me for a fool. Because she was a *friend* I didn't make an issue of it, but simply asked her to contribute to the household a little more often. But, like a fool, I didn't get made about it. I should have kicked her out long before I finally lost patience, but I finally had enough and asked her to leave.
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 07
talk about using a friend for their own advantage.. the least that she can do is contribute to some household like you said. its not like she doesnt have any money right? ohwell, atleast she's gone now :-)
@ciaosamson (541)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
Betray my trust. As a friend you would tell each other of past experiences and share problems and all that. What she has been telling us, apparently, were all lies.
Used me. A friend of mine is going out with a married guy. She used me once so she could meet with him.
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 07
any friend of mine who betrays my trust will no longer be a friend of mine. thanx for sharing your story!
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
We have the same case wherein i trusted her very much and later found out that she's a back stabber. We became worst enemies since then and even erase her name on baptismal certificate of my daughter.
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 07
wow.. i guess it was really bad in your case until you erased her name on your daughter's baptismal certificate. i hope everything is good with you now that you're not friends with her anymore. have a nice day!
@ergg78 (344)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 07
The worst thing for me was definitely being fooled! My friend are working night shift so obviously there's no taxi or buses available after 8pm. He ask if i could do him a favor, picking him up at 10pm. Well, although a little bit reluctant, i decided to pick him up. i have to drive 45 minutes to his work place alone. right about 10pm he was not there. I called him and he ask me to wait for a while. I waited for 2 hours though and he didn't even call to explain why he's late. i was sleeping in my car so i didn't realize it was a 2 hours wait. Finally, the phone rang; he apologize and told me he have to drive his drunk friend home as they are too drunk to drive. Of course, he's driving his friend's car. Later apologize again and said he's going back using his friend car. Well, that was one of the worst thing my friend has ever done to me. I gave him many excuses since. :) but im glad that he has his own car by now.
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 07
some 'friend' huh? ive heard so many cases like these i dont dare say yes to anyone (except my family members) for pick-me-ups. But if they offer me some fuel money, then i probably would say yes. Hey, nothing's free in this world :)