Is there any instance you have two or more girlfriend or boyfriend at a time?
@berryappleberry (548)
Philippines
April 16, 2007 4:17am CST
I bet no one would answer they had two boyfriends or girlfiends at a time.
But Im sure this happens.
Why? I caught my boyfriend having an affair with another girl why he is still committed to me.
Is it possible for a person two fall for TWO at the same time? Would you agree with the set up if you find your partner having an affair with another?
What would you do if you caught or know he's having another affair?
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@someincome (785)
• India
18 Apr 07
I have never had 2 girlfriends at a time. Infact, I have never even had 1 girlfriend at a time! Haha! Although I have been in love, but it has been unrequited 3 times. Now I am tired. I'm not even interest nor do I have the energy to fall in love with someone. I'm going to the Himalyas in search of the ultimate truth.
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
I can answer your question anyway its on the past now. I did had a relationship with two men at the same time. Its between me and my first bf and me and my neighbor, my childhood friend. I didnt intend to fall in love to both of them but i did fall. And when i was caught up, i have to make a choice. And i choose my neighbor. Until now, we are still on a relationship but i never tried to have again another one because i think its not right. If i find out my bf will have an affair while we are still in a relationship, i will leave him.
@rkumathegreat (20)
• Cameroon
16 Apr 07
Hi berry
there is his saying that true love dont lie.If you catch you boy friend with another girl,that means he has never love you from the start,you have to do friend is just to tell him off.Please dont be a fool to give him a second chance,couse he will keep doing it again and again.I have never cheated on my girl and if it happen one day ,i have only my self to blame if she tell me of.Love is very simple to understand,all you have to is make choice between two things,sorry to you only have to take one.FOR ME,is my girl for life or somebody elsebut must only be my girl thats why i have to say to all temptations.
@amjada (379)
•
16 Apr 07
Nice topic which has attitude. Yes, no one will tell if he or she
had two boyfriends or girlfriends, and haveing a affair with them.
YES it is possible for anyone to fall for TWO at the same time,
It is happing all the time as we can see today.But five Fingers are not the same.
@prettyfeigh (231)
• Philippines
16 Apr 07
hi berryappleberry! It's possible to have 2bf/2gf at the same time and im so sorry to hear this happened to you as well, we're on the same shoes 5 years ago when my ex bf is committed to me all of a sudden i found out he's cheating as well, and to my surprised i caught them together. So right there and there i called it quits. You can love two person at the same time but with different intensity but if the person is sincere with the relationship he/she won't do anything to harm it or to risk it right? So girl, better think and decide, i don't want to judge anyone but will all due respect, once he done it and you didn't teach him a lesson he can still do it anytime he wants to cause he will think that you can forgive him anyway. Goodluck girl and i wish you well!
@Easytime (126)
• Nigeria
16 Apr 07
Hello, I want to say franctically that I have had instances where I dated several girls at a time where none of them were knowledgible of the scene. But due to the fact that I am a conscientious person, I had to quit the other ones who came after the first girl. I did this act because I was selfish and self-centred - using the right of freedom of choice I have as a human being. But it was not love on any of them,it was due to infatuation. I felt sorry about that. That was an act of unfaithfulness to the first girl even when she was faithful to me. Though I never told her because I knew not what she'd do to me. But I quit having affairs with other girls. And I told them to their face. What I want to say is that, people still date two or more people based on lust and infatuations. And similarly, they also do it because they have the right of freedom of choice. But it is wholy selfishness.
Now I no longer do that again. I am vey faithful to my intimate partner bc she's faithful to me.
Pls I would advice anyone who does this to quit it and be faithful.
@sekhar2007 (133)
• India
16 Apr 07
Yes it is very diffcult to maintain at a time 2 girlfriends or boyfriends