Breaking up
By NiKe_bOi
@NiKe_bOi (165)
Singapore
April 16, 2007 11:06am CST
Well.. what is break up means to you.. is it the end of the world?? what have you actually gain in term of knowledge when you broke up with your partner?? what is it that you cant get over with??
When my gf broke with me a few years back.. i felt like it is the end of the world.. but i realize after a period of time that as much as i love her.. and feel sad that she no longer love me.. i think that the things i cant get over with is the habit and life without her that i feel painful with.. habit like sms her whenever i woke up or before sleeping.. sms her whenever i am down and or happy.. sms her after my training.. lifestyle including sending her home.. watching the latest movie.. you will feel empty without sending her home after sch time..
i cant get over with the habit and lifestyle.. what about you??
1 response
@pamilicious (265)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 07
it is a hard time when you're the one getting dumped. i felt the same way too a few years back. i allowed myself to cry the whole day and i wonder what i did wrong? the one thing that i can assure you will get over this is to avoid any possible contact with your ex. It needs to become a habit in order for you to get over the habit & lifestyle that you use to have when you guys were still together. I can say now im really over my breakup. well, good luck and take it easy..
@NiKe_bOi (165)
• Singapore
16 Apr 07
Hmmm.. well.. i also do as you say to minimise possible contact with my ex.. but it still took my 1 yr plus to get over.. though i occasionally ask her friends how is she.. she try to contact me as she still treat me as friend but i always try to avoid her as much as possible..
I cried myself every day for a few times.. one weeks i can cried up till 40 times until there is no more tears coming out from my eyes.. anyway thanks for your suggestions
