the one you love, or the one who loves you?
By marielle1571
@marielle1571 (61)
Philippines
April 16, 2007 12:21pm CST
if you were torn between two lovers, and you could only pick one to stay with, who would it be? personally, i'd choose the one who loves me because i know that he will take care of me and treat me right.
5 responses
@charina07 (19)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
been there...=) well it's not easy but i chose the one who loves me cause eventually u will also learn to love him especially if the guy's treating u well. cause we, girls love to be treated like a princess, that's our weakness. i didnt regret that decision cause eventhough that relationship was not really meant for me, i was happy while it lasted. no regrets. at least there was a moment in ur life that u felt someone had loved u like u wanted to be loved.
@cipher2004 (1183)
• United States
16 Apr 07
But if you choose the one you love would you be happy?I was with a man that treated me like gold.But I wasn't attracted to him.I was not happy at all even though I had every thing I wanted.I would not choose a man that I love if he were not happy with me either.This would be frustrating.It seems you would be wasting your time trying to make him love you and treat you right.My answer would be neither.It am 44 and fell in love with a man that is 29.We have been together for over 2 years now and have not had one argument.It took me an awful long time to find someone that feels the same way as I do.
