How to forget ur EX. ?

Dear jerukcantik.."first cut is the deepest-sherly crow" and it takes time to heal. Must remember that life must goes on, the love must be mutual, the past was the past and do not waste any more of your precious time. Do not rush into a new relationship.. get to know the real person first, you may find someone else.. everyone has his/her "jodoh" (tuhan dah tentukan,he knows everything that we don't). One day when you'd found your soulmate,you might be thankful that you had broken up with this guy. For me.. love is a gamble.. even when you'd married with 5 kids,you still never know whats going to happened. What we can do is to pray and "doa" for the best to happen for us. By the way, somebody told me that when you'd found the "jodoh", perform the "istikharah" to seek for guidance. You may either 1)dream for the answer 2)strong feeling on your decision 3)if not 1 or 2, than allah will help you in case if anything happen. Good Luck!