Guys Carrying Gals Handbag
By mdarma
@mdarma (868)
Singapore
April 17, 2007 12:37am CST
It as come as a trend for guys to carry their gals handbag. Would you do it?
As for me it is a big, NO! Gals carry handbags for style, for utility. Being a part of personal attire to ladies. Personally, I do not feel that is necessary or a need to carry their handbags. However, if their bags are carry-bags after a purchase, I will willing carry it.
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12 responses
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
17 Apr 07
I think it is plain disgusting, to be honest. It is basically one way for immature girls to flaunt their boyfriends. I have seen it being and it simply makes me roar with laughter when those carrying handbags are typing gangster-like boys. A big HAHA there. :P
I am single but if I have a girlfriend, I wouldn't want to carry it for her. If she has a valid reason, fair enough. But if she just wants me to parade around like an idiot carrying handbag, then I think such a girl does not deserve my heart.
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@slickcut (8141)
• United States
17 Apr 07
I don't think i would want my husband to carry my handbag,even if it were a trend...Sometimes my husband will watch my handbag or pick it up and give it to me..I think my husband would carry my handbag if i could not carry it for some reason,but even if it were the latest trend,I don't think i would let him carry around my handbag anyway.I don't feel it is necessary for men to carry our handbags either,it sorta sounds a little silly to see a man going around carrying a womans handbag....He always carries our purchases though.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
22 Apr 07
i know lots of girls feeling proud whenever their guys carrying their handbags for them.
as for me, i never want any male friends nor my boyfriend carry my handbag for me. i can carry it myself so why let them carry it for me? i know most men do this to show that they care for the woman and that they don't want their girls to be tired of carrying those bags. for me, if my bag is just small and handy, i carry it on my own. if it's too heavy for me to carry, i tell my man to help me with it. but to have it as their obligation to do so everytime we're together is not my style. i'd be happier if they hold my hand or put their arms on my shoulder and waste than carry my small handbag for me.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
17 Apr 07
well I am not a man so I don't know what I would do. Apparently it is the style though, and some men do it. My son would never carry a purse.
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@LordGregoroftheSith (667)
• United States
18 Apr 07
I was at the store with my ex and she asked me to hold her handbag while she tried on some clothes. A guy looked at me and was doing the same thing. We laughed. I truely wouldn't "carry" it. She has two arms she can carry her own stuff. But if she needs me to hold it, I will.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
22 Apr 07
at some instances, i will be happy to ask for help from my boyfriend. atleast carry my handbag while i do something or try something on. i guess it won't make a guy less a guy by doing so.
@edzingers (330)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
I don't let my boyfriend carry my bag. For me it doesn't look nice for a guy carrying a handbag right? If I see one for me its a turn off.
@mdarma (868)
• Singapore
17 Apr 07
I am glad that you feel the same way as my wife. Thankyou for responding
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
17 Apr 07
If my friend carried a handbag I think I would look at him like he is CRAZY.I would think he has issues if he does thats on the serious note.Thats my opinion.
@feralwoman (2199)
• Australia
21 Apr 07
LOL my husband wouldn't even consider carrying my handbag - which is good considering what it looks like! It is large and purple and has embroidered animals and mirrors and beads on it! I think he'd look really stupid carrying that. I don't like to see men carrying their partners handbags - what a turn off! Now carrier bags full of shopping are another matter! lol
@cruzades (659)
• Philippines
17 Apr 07
It is not really a trend for 'straight' guys to carry gals handbag, I guess they are gays and there's no wrong of being a gay carrying those, but as your discussion, you're haven't referring to either straight or non-straight guys, you've just generalized the issue.
Personally, I never ever do carry gals handbag, unless it's my wife's and I'm walking with her, but as walking alone with that, I don't think so.
@mummymo (23706)
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22 Apr 07
Oh come on honey - real men aren't upset at been seen carrying a handbag! My other half has his faults but if i need him to carry my bag for me for some reason he does it without a murmur - even my pretty pink one! Don't know f that says more about him being a man or being scared of me! lol xxx
@SHRIBALAJI (87)
• India
18 Apr 07
Hai, It is a long time I have heard from you.
I never had the opportunity of carrying gals handbags. But I have seen handbags of some of my friends. The contents of the bag change according to age, economic bacground, etc. I feel deinitely it is a must for them in India. Forget their makeup items. They bags are mainly used to keep the money, lunch box, magazines, tablets, and cellphone.