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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 14 Dec 12

Recently one of my good friends ask whether there are some pretty girls in my office still single?Because he really want to have a girl friend due to his parents push him so much.Then after a short thinking I figure out that I do...

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sriroshan You are correct but on such dating very few people go since now a days dating as such have become like fashion where even after their first meeting they plan to go on dating, which is actually not correct.

30 Mar 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 22 Dec 12

Today one of my cousins call me and cry,her boyfriend,who she have fell in love with more than 2 years,told her that he do not prepare to get marry with her right now.The thing begins with this,my consin's parents told her that...

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roshigo58 Hi, Your cousin and her boy friend should discuss about this and hse should tell him about her parents feelings. She should ask the reason why to wait for 3 years. If they both love each other they should try to understand each others difficulties. There...

30 Mar 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 2 Feb 13

I think the marriage is base on the ture love,so as the traditional symbol,the dowry also should be kept up with the times,no longer be the burden of the girl's family,or at least we can use some good but not experience things to...

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roshigo58 Hi, Dowry system should be removed from the society. It is very evil system. The girl's family is forced to give money, two wheeler, or four wheeler, jewellery etc. in the form of jewellery. Dowry is not allowed by law in India. But it is taken by many...

14 Mar 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 2 Feb 13

I think the marriage is base on the ture love,so as the traditional symbol,the dowry also should be kept up with the times,no longer be the burden of the girl's family,or at least we can use some good but not experience things to...

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vidhyaprakash_2 In India dowry system is quite common. In fact, it seems like a culture in India. During every arranged marriages the parents of the bride groom seeks a lot of things like money, house hold things, Jewels, dresses,furniture,vehicles and other things as dowry...

8 Mar 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 22 Dec 12

Today one of my cousins call me and cry,her boyfriend,who she have fell in love with more than 2 years,told her that he do not prepare to get marry with her right now.The thing begins with this,my consin's parents told her that...

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youless Perhaps 25 years old for a woman to get married is suitable, but it seems it is still not the right age for men yet. As you know, in this modern society people tend to get married later because they want to have a good finance at first. Everything costs money,...

7 Mar 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 2 Feb 13

I think the marriage is base on the ture love,so as the traditional symbol,the dowry also should be kept up with the times,no longer be the burden of the girl's family,or at least we can use some good but not experience things to...

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youless The dowry? I almost forgot it. You are right, as time goes by, the dowry is not necessary and it shall be gone in many places already. Today no more people have mentioned the dowry yet. After all, the new couples may have to buy the new houses and spend a lot...

7 Mar 13

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jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 27 Feb 13

Have you tried this before? I know it's not esay to live in another country which is not your language and culture.But how do you handle normal life and how to spend it meaningfully? Cuz many people go through loneliness.Thanks so...

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valorieesquilona i have never experienced living abroad but my Mom does that's why I understand the feeling when everything that surrounds you is foreign and strange. i know she's feeling lonely because she's missing us but she has to face the consequences of her decision....

2 Mar 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 22 Dec 12

Today one of my cousins call me and cry,her boyfriend,who she have fell in love with more than 2 years,told her that he do not prepare to get marry with her right now.The thing begins with this,my consin's parents told her that...

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miryanag I think that no one should tell them when or if they should get married. They should want to become husband and wife and they will when they are ready it could be tomorrow or after ten years it's the couple decision.

26 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 22 Dec 12

Today one of my cousins call me and cry,her boyfriend,who she have fell in love with more than 2 years,told her that he do not prepare to get marry with her right now.The thing begins with this,my consin's parents told her that...

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Toni I'm not sure how your culture deals with marriages, but in my place, yes that age is marrying age but not the desperate marrying age for a guy. Nowadays women get married in their 30s and men too. I think 20s are still young but not that young. And for me,...

26 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 16 Feb 13

I had quited my last job in the end of 2012,so now I need to find a new job in this year.Due to the bad global economy in last year,I could not keep my job in 2012 so I really wish the international economy will turn to better...

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camomile07 Maybe it will start to change a bit this year and, oh yes, changes are more than necessary now as so many peope have to many troubles already, as the situation is during already so long. But, I think it still will take some years until we will see the result...

20 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 16 Feb 13

I had quited my last job in the end of 2012,so now I need to find a new job in this year.Due to the bad global economy in last year,I could not keep my job in 2012 so I really wish the international economy will turn to better...

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litvillegas I'm sorry to hear about this friend. We are all facing hard economic situation nowadays, it's a global problem. How I wish sooner or later our government will provide a better employment. I also hope you can find a job soon. Keep your faith friend.....

20 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 16 Feb 13

I had quited my last job in the end of 2012,so now I need to find a new job in this year.Due to the bad global economy in last year,I could not keep my job in 2012 so I really wish the international economy will turn to better...

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kokomo Yes, I am also hopeful that this year would be a good year for the international economy. I am still enjoying my work since 2011 and nothing's change just only the tasks that we are doing but the salary is just constant. We are also demanding for a higher...

18 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 16 Feb 13

I had quited my last job in the end of 2012,so now I need to find a new job in this year.Due to the bad global economy in last year,I could not keep my job in 2012 so I really wish the international economy will turn to better...

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LearnToEarnMoney i dont know which part of the world you are from but i feel a larger part of the world can feel the same. Its like if you have lost every game in the past then there is nothing to loose. The economic scenerio had been bad to worst and this is quite expected...

17 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 16 Feb 13

I had quited my last job in the end of 2012,so now I need to find a new job in this year.Due to the bad global economy in last year,I could not keep my job in 2012 so I really wish the international economy will turn to better...

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KrauseHome Personally, it is sad to think about how the economy is with jobs, etc. A lot of times, it depends on where you live and what type of job you are doing or want to do, to help make something happen. I often think the issue is finding ways to sell yourself to...

17 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 16 Feb 13

I had quited my last job in the end of 2012,so now I need to find a new job in this year.Due to the bad global economy in last year,I could not keep my job in 2012 so I really wish the international economy will turn to better...

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ARIES1973 Hi sky! Unemployment is also one of the main problems in our country. Even though the government is always making announcements that the economy has increase and more employment for everybody is available, still people are complaining. I don't know if...

17 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 2 Feb 13

I think the marriage is base on the ture love,so as the traditional symbol,the dowry also should be kept up with the times,no longer be the burden of the girl's family,or at least we can use some good but not experience things to...

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binaybbsr1 We need changes for the betterment of citizen and dowry is one of them. But, as you feel dowry is the cause of many family disasters, its not the fact in ground zero. In many cases, family disputes are designed as if is related to dowry, particularly by the...

4 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 2 Feb 13

I think the marriage is base on the ture love,so as the traditional symbol,the dowry also should be kept up with the times,no longer be the burden of the girl's family,or at least we can use some good but not experience things to...

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sender621 For many years it has been expected that a bride's family would offer a dowry to the the intended groom in marriage. Traditions do change over the years and it is not expected to offer a bride with a dowry as much. Some countries do hold onto...

3 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 2 Feb 13

I think the marriage is base on the ture love,so as the traditional symbol,the dowry also should be kept up with the times,no longer be the burden of the girl's family,or at least we can use some good but not experience things to...

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lampar Dowry requirement from the bride's side of the family is not a common practice in many culture, it is only take place in a few countries in this modern era, only certain group of people still practice this ancient traditional culture in the world today that...

3 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 2 Feb 13

I think the marriage is base on the ture love,so as the traditional symbol,the dowry also should be kept up with the times,no longer be the burden of the girl's family,or at least we can use some good but not experience things to...

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binaybbsr1 thnx tht you have a deep knowledge on India. Me from india and yes, dowry is a near mandatory process in Indian arrange marriage. Though I do not support dowry, i feel instead of dowry, parents should share their property among their children irrespective of...

3 Feb 13

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skyandgrassplot @skyandgrassplot (1497) • China 2 Feb 13

I think the marriage is base on the ture love,so as the traditional symbol,the dowry also should be kept up with the times,no longer be the burden of the girl's family,or at least we can use some good but not experience things to...

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anilhclites These arrange marriages are the victims of dowry. Now since, we are now educated more than our parents, we should make sure that we do not ask dowry for our children marriage. If we do not ask for dowry, naturally our children too will not ask for dowry and...

3 Feb 13

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