Have You Ever Heard This Saying?

United States
January 2, 2024 5:30am CST
I have heard a saying that has puzzled me for a number of years. The saying is he or she is getting better to die. I knew a young man, who was my middle son's friend. He got sick, we all thought he was getting better, in fact the day before he died, his Mom said he was talking so much until she had to tell him to shut up. I know of another person whom we thought was getting better and was going to come home, but didn't.. I always wonder about that saying seems so strange. Have you ever heard it?
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@RasmaSandra (74633)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Jan
Glad @just4him could explain this, I had never heard it before,
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• United States
3 Jan
I've been hearing a good while. Just never made sense until today.
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@just4him (310128)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan
@RasmaSandra You're welcome.
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@moffittjc (119018)
• Gainesville, Florida
2 Jan
I have never heard the saying before.
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• United States
2 Jan
Weird, but it seems valid.
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• United States
3 Jan
@moffittjc Yes it is as weird as it is. Just glad I finally got an understanding.
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@moffittjc (119018)
• Gainesville, Florida
2 Jan
@popciclecold It does. It seems from reading all the comments that there is some truth to the saying.
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@much2say (54011)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Jan
I don't know the saying, but my mom has always said something similar about just before a person passes (she's witnessed too much of it ).
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• United States
2 Jan
I've heard it and wondered so much about it. I learned today a lot of people have heard it.
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@RebeccasFarm (87035)
• United States
2 Jan
Yes I know what you mean about this..it is like God grants a person one last day
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• United States
2 Jan
It's really a very strange saying.
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@LadyDuck (461940)
• Switzerland
2 Jan
We have the same saying in Italy.
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• United States
2 Jan
Glad to hear someone else has heard it.
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• United States
3 Jan
@LadyDuck Wow Anna, now that is really something. Thank you, for sharing.
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@LadyDuck (461940)
• Switzerland
3 Jan
@popciclecold - You are welcome. I have seen the same with my grandmother who lived with us.
@Ronrybs (17929)
• London, England
2 Jan
Not heard this one before and it is a bit ominous. Are you really getting better or is worse to follow!
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• United States
2 Jan
I guess worse is to follow.
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@AmbiePam (86277)
• United States
2 Jan
No, I have never heard that saying before.
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• United States
2 Jan
I hadn't either but it certainly is a strange saying
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@snowy22315 (172021)
• United States
3 Jan
Not sure I have honestly.
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@allknowing (130534)
• India
3 Jan
Never heard of that saying but have seen it happening.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49383)
• United States
2 Jan
I haven’t heard it before.
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@TheHorse (208405)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Jan
I have not.
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@JudyEv (328112)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Jan
I haven't heard that saying but I've heard about people seeming to get a second lease of life a few days before they die. It seems a bit similar to pregnant women getting a sudden burst of energy a few days before they give birth.
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@LindaOHio (160320)
• United States
2 Jan
Yes, I've heard it. Sometimes someone will seem like they are getting better right before they die. Have a great day.
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• United States
2 Jan
Happy to know others have heard it.
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@Neil43 (3189)
2 Jan
I have never heard though. That is a not good statement to say though.
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• United States
2 Jan
I totally agree with you. It has baffled me for years.
@wolfgirl569 (97331)
• Marion, Ohio
2 Jan
I have never heard that
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@JESSY3236 (19146)
• United States
2 Jan
I haven't heard of that saying.
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