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eynjel_1988 @eynjel_1988 (330) • Philippines 14 Aug 11

I know all of us have our own cellphones.Some of us don't have only one, but two or even three cellphones. Well cellphones really helps us in different things.It can help us to be connected with our family. In my part, I...

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Robben2009 Sorry that I didn't say I turned off my cellphone when I go to sleep, what I mean is that I switch my cellphone silent to avoid being disturbed every time I go to sleep.

16 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 13 Aug 11

There is a river near my village, about 3 kilometres from my house, and there is a big forest around the river, there are many tress inside, such as poplar tree, pagoda tree and so on as well as many flowers. We ofter went to swim...

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Robben2009 Ah very good! Hope the river near your home is never polluted or changed into commerial use. Enjoy your life

15 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 10 Aug 11

Many people told me that it is hard to keep the contact with the first girlfriend after separating, is that true? For me, I don't believe that, because what I experienced can prove that. I made my first girl friend many years ago,...

contact

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Robben2009 Yes, to some extent, it is really disrepectfull to my wife if I still keep in touch with my first girlfriend, but for me, my first girlfriend has had her own family, and I aslo have had my own family, and both of our families have had child, we just chat...

10 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 10 Aug 11

Many people told me that it is hard to keep the contact with the first girlfriend after separating, is that true? For me, I don't believe that, because what I experienced can prove that. I made my first girl friend many years ago,...

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Robben2009 Hi Metahelly, I'm surprised that you have had 10 girls after your first girlfriend, but it's good. And yes, 6 years have passed, you have changed a lot, being more mature

10 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 9 Aug 11

I have one daughter, but I want to have one more, because I think one kid is not enough, it is better that one girl has a brother or sister, then they can help each other, care each other, and have less pressure to take care of us...

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Robben2009 Yes, you are right, we should decide how many children we should get according to our capability of raising. For me, I plan to get more in 3 years, that will be good if the second one is a boy

10 Aug 11

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Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 9 Aug 11

I have one daughter, but I want to have one more, because I think one kid is not enough, it is better that one girl has a brother or sister, then they can help each other, care each other, and have less pressure to take care of us...

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Robben2009 hi Dismalgrin, it's very interesting that our species will end up dying out if each couple only has one child, my math is not so good, but it is truely reasonbale. And you are right that we should let the children experience the tough times, but every coin has...

10 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 9 Aug 11

I have one daughter, but I want to have one more, because I think one kid is not enough, it is better that one girl has a brother or sister, then they can help each other, care each other, and have less pressure to take care of us...

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Robben2009 Hi Aweins, sometimes it is not good to spoil your daughter, it is not good for the the children, it is better that we should teach her what is wrong and what is right. And I agree with you that it cost much to raise a child, and it is also good to put the...

10 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 7 Aug 11

According the surwey, many young people don't want to live with parents together after they get married in China, because they would have more private space and avoid the quarrels with parents if they live in their own house. Yes,...

family

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Robben2009 I agree with you, just live in your own house which is not far from your parents' house after you get married, I am sure that you will have a happy life if you do so, please trust me.

10 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 9 Aug 11

I have one daughter, but I want to have one more, because I think one kid is not enough, it is better that one girl has a brother or sister, then they can help each other, care each other, and have less pressure to take care of us...

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Robben2009 I agree with what you did, it is correct that you took your wife into full consideration, you can't take risk even though you are eager to want one more child. We have to admit that there are many families which only have one child, and they lived very...

9 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 9 Aug 11

I have one daughter, but I want to have one more, because I think one kid is not enough, it is better that one girl has a brother or sister, then they can help each other, care each other, and have less pressure to take care of us...

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Robben2009 It is good for you to have 3 kids, I also want to have 3 kids, but you know, it is not allowed to get 3 kids by government here. At our place, you can't get more kids if your first child is a boy, but you can get one more if the first child is a girl. Besides,...

9 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 9 Aug 11

I have one daughter, but I want to have one more, because I think one kid is not enough, it is better that one girl has a brother or sister, then they can help each other, care each other, and have less pressure to take care of us...

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Robben2009 It's very perfect to have one boy and one girl, that's also what I want. Hope I can get one boy in the near future, but I have to wait, because my daughter is too young now and I don't have enough money to support two kids at this moment

9 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 9 Aug 11

I'm always eager to become a qualified English private teacher, then I can make more money, but I don't have the experience about it, I don't know how to teach the students and how to help them improve the score of the English, do...

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Robben2009 Thanks for your valuable suggestion, yes just as you mentioned, I should make a plan before I do it. Besides, I need to spend time on learning it from some websites. Thanks again for your help.

9 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 8 Aug 11

I have a daughter who is almost 2 years old, she is so so lovely and I love her very much. For me, it is ok no matter I got a girl or boy, but it is different for my parents, they love boy more compared to the girl. I have a...

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Robben2009 Yes you are right, I'm from China, the reason many people prefer the boy is that this is a kind of traditional chinease culture, this phenomenon is more popuplar in the rural districts

9 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 8 Aug 11

I have a daughter who is almost 2 years old, she is so so lovely and I love her very much. For me, it is ok no matter I got a girl or boy, but it is different for my parents, they love boy more compared to the girl. I have a...

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Robben2009 It is also very good that your parents have five girls, because at least you would not feel lonely

8 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 8 Aug 11

I have a daughter who is almost 2 years old, she is so so lovely and I love her very much. For me, it is ok no matter I got a girl or boy, but it is different for my parents, they love boy more compared to the girl. I have a...

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Robben2009 Wow you are very funny, I can't help laughing when you mentioned "If I stay single, my family lind and name dies when I die". Enjoy your life and have a nice day!

8 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 7 Aug 11

For traditional wedding in China, the newlyweds need to own an apartment, a car, wedding rings as well as hold expensive wedding ceremony. However, in recent years, more and more young couples have chosen a "naked marriage" which...

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Robben2009 Yes the couple should strive for the good future

8 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 7 Aug 11

For traditional wedding in China, the newlyweds need to own an apartment, a car, wedding rings as well as hold expensive wedding ceremony. However, in recent years, more and more young couples have chosen a "naked marriage" which...

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Robben2009 Yes I agree with you good luck

8 Aug 11

Robben2009 @Robben2009 (146) • China 8 Aug 11

Mother is the greatest person in the world, but how often do you call your mother? And how often do you go back home to see your mother?

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Robben2009 Ah good. And the city I'm working at is not far from Beijing, welcome to our city when you are free

8 Aug 11

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